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30March   {Giveaway} The perfect shade of red nail polish by Deborah Lippmann
Manicurist to the stars, FOF Deborah Lippmann, is giving away five bottles of "My Old Flame," a universally flattering shade of red. Enter to win by commenting below: Do you get professional manicures or do it yourself?

Thank you for entering. This contest is now closed.




FOF Deborah Lippmann has cut and colored the claws of Cher, Martha Stewart and an impressive roster of other A-list celebs.

After dreams of becoming a jazz diva didn't materialize, Deborah enrolled in cosmetology school where she discovered her true talent -- nails.

Then, she nailed it in Phoenix, where the city's socialites lined up at her manicure chair. But, it wasn't enough, Deborah had stars in her eyes.

She tried her hand in New York City where by a stroke of luck, an Allure editor ended up in her chair. "One of the best manicurists in the country" wrote the editor after her life-changing mani. Editors at Vogue later dubbed Deborah a "mega-manicurist."

From there, Deborah's career took off. She gained a reputation not only for her magical manicures but for mixing custom colors so celebs such as Kate Winslet, Reese Witherspoon, Renee Zellweger and Penelope Cruz could have unique nail shades when accepting their Oscars.

Deborah continues to do manicures for top clients, but she also spends her days crafting colors for her award-winning line of lacquer.

Enter to win one of five bottles of "My Old Flame," FOF Deborah Lippmann's perfect shade of red nail polish by commenting below and answering: Do you get professional manicures or do it yourself?


(See all our past winners. See official rules. Five winners are chosen at random from all those commenters who answer the question. Contest closes April 7, 2011.)
30March   {Book Expert} Linda Wolfe: Review of A Widow’s Story
In A Widow’s Story, Joyce Carol Oates's describes the painful year following her husband's sudden death. FOF book reviewer Linda Wolfe, a widow herself, praises Oates's warmth, but questions her sincerity.


A Widow’s Story, Joyce Carol Oates’s memoir about her first year of widowhood after the death of her husband Ray Smith, a scholar and editor to whom she’d been married for almost fifty years, is bound to call to mind Joan Didion’s The Year of Magical Thinking.  Since hardly a book lover over fifty hasn’t read the Didion work--and you must be a book lover if you’re reading my FOF reviews--I’ll get the comparisons out of the way right upfront. Where Didion was concise, precise and poetic, Oates is verbose, expansive, and prosaic, inclined to give us everything and the kitchen sink, from reporting her terrors about entering her empty house and running out of death certificates, to reprinting emails the complete emails she exchanged with friends. Nevertheless, this is a warmer work than Didion’s, more intimate, more straightforward, and truer to the actual day-by-day, minute-by-minute thoughts and experiences of the newly-widowed woman. (I’ve been there myself, so I know the territory.)

Every widow will recognize herself in Oates’s thoughts and experience. Take her anguish about being left alone:  “When you are not alone, you are shielded,” she writes, “from the stark implacable unspeakable indescribable terror of aloneness. You are shielded from the knowledge of your own insignificance....When you are loved you are blind to your own worth; or, you are indifferent to such thoughts.”

Or take her bouts of what Didion termed “magical thinking”:  remembering the times she traveled without Ray, Oates tries telling herself “with childish logic that if Ray were alive but not with me, that absence would be identical with this absence.”

Then there’s the  bursting into tears at odd moments. The inability to sleep at night. The depression that makes even simple chores seem impossible. The rage at having to secure documents just in order to access one’s money. The horrifying sensation that not just a beloved partner has been lost, but that one’s own self has been lost as well. Above all, the recurrent thoughts of suicide.

Many married women think to themselves--or even say aloud, as a friend of mine said to me just the other day--that if their partners were to die, they’d kill themselves. Oates always imagined she’d choose that course. “Frequently in the past,” she writes, “I had consoled myself that, should something happen to Ray, I would not want to outlive him. I could not bear to outlive him!  I would take a fatal dose of sleeping pills.”

Soon after Ray’s death, she does get out all the leftover sleeping pills and tranquilizers she’s been prescribed over the years, but she doesn’t take any of them. Their presence is reassuring, but she continues to have suicidal thoughts. To the widow, she says, “Suicide promises A good night’s sleep–with no interruptions. And no next day.”

Wrestling with her demons, Oates sets herself the modest goal of getting through each day.  And at book’s end, she declares,“Of the widow’s countless death-duties, there is really just one that matters: on the first anniversary of her husband’s death the widow should think, I kept myself alive.”

Oates doesn’t tell us that besides keeping herself alive, within a year of her husband’s death she found a new partner, became engaged, and in a few months married him. I hate to sound cynical, but I suspect Oates is saving that story for her next book. Too bad. Leaving out this information, which is common knowledge in the literary world, makes this otherwise memorable book seem unfortunately disingenuous.

Linda Wolfe is a renowned journalist, essayist and novelist who happened to move to a new apartment right next door to the Faboverfifty offices. Now she writes brilliant book reviews just for us. Read more about Linda.
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29March   {Video} Were you a “Tiger Mom?”
It's the year of the "Tiger Mom."

In January, author Amy Chua released her Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother to both roaring criticism and acclaim. In the book, Amy contrasts the traditional, strict “Chinese” approach of parenting with what she calls the "Western" style of child rearing. She includes vivid anecdotes of the extreme disciplinary tactics she used raising her own children including calling her daughters names, like "lazy" or" garbage," and even threatening to burn their stuffed animals if they performed below expectations. Some have called her parenting tactics alarming and even abusive. Others have praised her, such as Charles Murray of the American Enterprise Institute, who said that “large numbers of talented children everywhere would profit from Chua’s approach, and instead are frittering away their gifts."

Whatever you believe, there's no question the "tiger mom" phenom struck a chord. Here, FOF video bloggers The Boomer Broads ask their own kids, "Was I tiger mom? Should I have been?"

Tell us, were you a "Tiger Mom"?
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28March   {Style Expert} What do you think of this look?
Another fashion week FOF--but is she a fashion victim or a fashion champ?


FOF Terry Gibraltar: “The white boots are so unflattering on her, and the combo of heavy ruched skirt and fur trimmed jacket don't do her any favors either. I really don't like anything about this outfit! I say, start over.”

-Terry Gibralter is the founder of Bespoke Custom Shopping Tours, carefully-crafted shopping “vacations” and a self-proclaimed, “fashion-obsessed” FOF.


FOF Susan Grant: “Coincidentally, I returned from Paris just a few hours ago and can report that white footwear is a big trend. That said, this isn't a chic way of pulling it off. The look would work better if the boots were worn with an all black outfit and a longer skirt.”

Susan Grant is merchandise manager for Muse, a full-service jewelry showroom.
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FOF Sherrie Mathieson: “A black-and-white palette can be well done--but she uses it to grab attention rather than enhance her body. The jacket narrows her shoulders, the skirt widens her hips, and her body length is chopped along the "checkerboard.” Would she switch the bottom to a sleek wide-legged black pant and black boot? Hope so!”

Sherrie Mathieson is a leading style expert and Random House author of Steal this Style and Forever Cool.



FOF Gail Garramone: “The boots would work better with a less complicated look up top, perhaps a monochromatic one. And the proportion of the shoes to her legs is not right--she looks like she stepped into marshmallows.”
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Gail Garramone is a veteran V.P. of Liz Claiborne Inc. where she traveled around the country with Tim Gunn producing fashion workshops.


Sandra Soich: “It’s wrong. This lovely lady just doesn’t have the right frame for this look....thick middle, heavy knees and calves. Everything is chopped and not flowing.”

Sandra Soich is wardrobe stylist to the stars and founder of YourFashionTherapist.com.



Tell us FOFs: Do you agree with our style experts? What do you think of this outfit?
25March   {Weekly Roundup}
It's Friday...Make like a tree and leaf, FOFs. We'll see you back here on Monday.



Dos and don'ts of jeans

Austerity chic

Get a load of this SuperFOF

Star Magnolia study

Vintage turquoise

10 beauty myths debunked

A great tee

Parisian kitchens vs. American kitchens

It's a cinch: new shapewear by Uniqlo (!)

Style secrets from the countess of glamour

Makeup brush cleaning basics

Wine travel

P.S. Click here if you're tired of eBay.

Image by Fine Little Day via Design Scouting
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23March   {Giveaway} 7 FOFs will win the “greenest” kitchen containers on Earth!
FOF is giving away seven 10-piece sets of Kinetic Go Green Glasslock food storage containers. Enter to win by commenting below and answering: Have you ever been to a Tupperware party?

Thank you for entering. This contest is now closed.



The party may be over for Tuppwerare. Those ubiquitous plastic containers are taking the heat for their possible risks to human health and the environment. A new study has shown a link between a chemical in plasticware (BPA or bisphenol-A) and breast cancer. (Read more here.)

One company, Kinetic, is ahead of the curve with their line of environmentally-friendly, BPA-free glass storage containers, Go Green Glasslock. They were named a top contender in Good Housekeeping's rigorous test of 28 different food storage products. Editors at Real Simple named them the "Best Container for Leftovers" and Cooks Illustrated highly recommended Kinetic Glasslock in a review. "A neat, tight, reliable seal, good capacity, and solid performance in every test made this container a standout," they wrote. "If you are concerned about microwaving food in plastic storage containers, this is the one to choose."

In addition to the health benefits, the environmental arguments for using glass food storage over plastic are compelling. Glasslock products are made from a natural organic compound that is 100% recyclable. Plastic is made from artificial substances and can take up to a millennium to break down in a landfill. So, don't rush to trash all your plastic containers just yet, but when thinking about your health and the environment, glass may just be the plastic of the future.

Enter to win one of seven, 10-piece sets of Kinetic Go Green Glasslock food storage containers by commenting below and answering: Have you ever been to a Tupperware party?

(See all our past winners. See official rules. Seven winners are chosen at random from all those commenters who answer the question. Contest closes March 31, 2011.)

22March   {Shopping} We’ve all heard of eBay, but what about these fab sites for vintage shopping?
eBay has it's merits, but we've got the goods on where real FOF vintage vixens shop. Check out these insider sites for shopping second-hand....

Jewelry: Atlantis Dry Goods



They say the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, but in this case the tree didn't grow far from the apple. After fifteen-year-old style wunderkind, Jane Aldridge, gained wild acclaim for her blog, Sea of Shoes, her mom Judy decided to give blogging a whirl. Judy, a former model turned fashion-designer, posts fashion inspiration, recipes, DIY projects and more on her blog, Atlantis Home. Her most recent venture? Atlantis Dry Goods, an online store with delightfully funky vintage jewelry, belts and other odds and ends. Lions and leopards and bears, oh my! Judy loves stocking her e-boutique with funky animal charms. Her store is a jungle of pieces from famed designers such as Trifari, Givenchy, Judith Leiber and more. Oh, and the prices are not at all wild -- most of the jewelry hovers between $20 and $150.

Don't miss our other fave vintage jewelry resources:
Affordable Vintage Jewelry
House of Lavande
Erstwhile Jewelry Co.

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Fashion: Couture Allure




FOF Jody Steinman scouts out only the best designer duds for her online vintage shop, Couture Allure. "I don't offer anything that I wouldn't wear myself," says Jody. She's spent years fostering relationships in the industry to find "the best in vintage fashion still hiding in historic New England homes," she says. Dior, Yves St. Laurent, Oscar de la Renta, Lilli Ann and Pucci are just a sampling of the designers Jody carries, and the selection changes weekly. "I also carry gorgeous vintage garments that have no designer labels," she says. In the market for an uber-unique special-occasion dress? Couture Allure has an unrivaled selection of evening wear.

Don't miss our other fave vintage fashion resources:
FashionDig
Rodeo Drive Resale
Rusty Zipper


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Home & Accessories: Housing Works



Shopping at Housing Works is "a win/win," wrote in FOF Alexis Marnel. "I furnished my whole apartment there...The best part is that proceeds go to people living with HIV/AIDS." NYC-based Housing Works has gained a reputation as the Bergdorf Goodman of thrift stores thanks to its meticulously-vetted selection of men's and women's clothing, jewelry, handbags, accessories--and it's particularly standout furniture and artwork. Now, non New Yorkers are privy to this haven of haute hand-me-downs thanks to ShopHousingWorks.com. You can log on from Calcutta to Kalamazoo and troll inventory for sale and online auctions (FedEx shipping is available on select items). Searching on a whim, we found this fabulously-mod Conran Shop rug, a whimsical decorative plate by Kaas and a delightful hickory wing chair.

Don't miss our other fave vintage home resources:
1stDibs
Jack and Friends
Hindsvik Vintage Home Decor
United House Wrecking

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Going, going gone!
As of publication of this story on March 22, 2011 the fab products pictured above were available at their corresponding online boutiques. However, as to be expected with second-hand shopping, what's here today might be... gone tomorrow!
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22March   {Style Expert} You CAN wear green!
It's not easy wearing green.

Green is a color that many women struggle with, according to FOF Jill Kirsh, “Hollywood’s guru of hue.” "It's not in most people's color comfort zone," says Jill. "If you're wearing the wrong green it can really age you, sallow your skin and make you look sick.

Jill believes "everyone can wear every color. It just depends on finding the right hue." Here, she uses her fool-proof system to help you find the most flattering shade of green.

First, decide which of four hair color categories you fall into: golden browns/redhead, deep brunette, ash blondes/grey or warm blondes.  Then, read below to discover Jill's recommended shade of green for you.


"Look at how olive brings out the warmth of FOF actress Catherine Keener's hair and evens out her skin tone," says Jill. "The wrong shade of green, such as a mint green would look like hospital scrubs on Catherine. It would gray her skin and make her hair look brassy."



"Emerald green is just right for a deep brunette like FOF Oprah Winfrey," says Jill. "True, clear colors such as emerald against her dark hair make her features pop. The wrong green for a deep brunette such as Kelly green would yellow her skin and fragment her features."



"Mint green is fabulous choice for someone with ash blonde or gray hair," says Jill. "It works with FOF actress Helen Mirren's cool, silver hair. Everything is in sync and vibrant. On the other hand, olive would wash her out, give her an unhealthy glow and give her hair a greenish tint."



"Kelly green can make a warm blonde look vibrant, fresh and younger. It brings out FOF Kim's best features. Mint green would make her hair look brassy."


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Jill Kirsh sells her color system through Soft Surroundings including her ultimate makeup kit, lip kits, a patented swatch book and an on-the-go mini compact. For more information, visit Jill’s page at Soft Surroundings.


Images via FanPix, The Complex Media, Tech Digest and KimCattrall.net
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21March   {Poll} Which FOF celeb is the “greenest”?
FOF celebs have been singing the praises of all things eco, sustainable and energy efficient. But when they're not in the limelight, which stars stay green?

Read about 3 "eco-friendly" FOF celebs, and then vote on who is truly "greenest."

Bette Midler


"Every day I have to remind myself that cleaning up the environment is like fighting a war. Changing people's minds and habits is one of the hardest things anyone can do. But, if each one of us does our own part, day after day, we can make a difference." -- Bette Midler


Her greenchievements:
-In 1995, Bette founded the New York Restoration Project (NYRP), a non-profit organization that revitalizes parks in economically disadvantaged New York city neighborhoods. The organization has removed more than 2,000 tons of trash from New York City parks and saved hundreds of community gardens from commercial development.

-Bette Midler and the NYRP are leading MillionTreesNYC, an initiative to plant and care for one million new trees throughout New York City's five boroughs by 2017.

-She is a recipient of the 2008 National Audubon Society's Rachel Carson Award and the United Nations Environmental Programme Influential Women of The Environment Award.

Her eco-oops!:
-In August of 2007, Bette came under fire for cutting down 230 trees on her Hawaiian property without a permit.

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Roseanne Barr


"[Macadamia nuts hold] the promise of a brilliant future for this planet...I have a nut farm. I’m growing macadamia nuts… I’m serious about it.” - Roseanne Barr



Her greenchievements:
-This year, Roseanne purchased a 40-acre macadamia nut farm in Hawaii while promoting her book “Roseannarchy: Dispatches From the Nut Farm.” Roseanne said nuts are better than meat for environmental and health reasons: "They’re the perfect protein. They don’t have any carbohydrates and the only fat they’ve got is a lot, but it’s the good kind. So it’s better than beef. No greenhouse gases. Nice nuts." We knew she was nutty...but not this nutty!

-Later this year, Roseanne will premiere a reality show about her life on the macadamia farm on the Lifetime television network.  The network has ordered 16 half-hour episodes which will feature the FOF comedian Johnny Ardent, her boyfriend, and her son, Jake.

Her eco-oops!:
-Roseanne is  in the middle of a land dispute with her Hawaiian neighbors. They have filed a complaint with County officials that she has been doing grading work on the property, without proper permits. Prior to this, Roseanne sought a temporary restraining order against the same neighbors for harassment. She has said that any land use violations were "a mistake" and going forward she'll work to comply with regulations.

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Daryl Hannah


"One wouldn't think that you would have to become an environmentalist or a humanitarian. It's just natural to treat people and other creatures on the planet with respect." --Daryl Hannah



Her greenchievements:
-On June 13, 2006 Hannah was arrested when she chained herself to a walnut tree for three weeks (talk about a tree-hugger!) to protest the bulldozing of an urban farm in Los Angeles. She spent some time in jail following the arrest. She was arrested again in June of 2009 when she protested a mountaintop removal in West Virginia.

-Hannah started an online store selling only environmentally friendly goods and a website with environmental news and videos on topics ranging from veganism to biodiesel.

-She is a board member of the Environmental Media Association, Action Sports Environment Coalition and ecoAmerica and co-founded Sustainable Biodiesel Alliance to promote sustainable biodiesel practices.

-She has a green home in the Rocky Mountains made with salvaged materials. It uses solar energy for heating and cooling and features a moss stone couch (that she waters regularly).

Her eco-oops!:
-None we could find!

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Images: New York Restoration Project, Warming Glow, The Distracted Globe
Sources: Mother Nature Network, United Nations Environment Programme, SFGate.com, AP Entertainment

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18March   {Weekly Roundup}


Chandeliers...for your ears!

A place called home

Gloves and sunglasses...a style contradiction that works!

Perfect black pants

New magazine, old cover girl

"If I wanted advice on looking younger, I would ask Karl Lagerfeld, he looks younger now than 25 years ago. But there is no way I would drink all those Diet Cokes." -FOF model Inés de la Fressange.

Herb garden in a jiffy.

Spring clean your makeup brushes.

Drugstore beauty.

Fleamarketing in France: the 10 commandments. Don't like rummaging? Here's 10 more ways to spend a day in Paris

Tough leather styles with a delicate twist

Best walks in the country

A wild restaurant in Thailand

Image via Millie Motts
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