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28December   {Giveaway} Win a giftcard bundle worth $125
Win a gift card bundle from CVS including $25 gift cards to Bed Bath & Beyond, Crate & Barrel, Groupon, SpaWeek.com and Macys. Enter to win by becoming a fan of FabOverFifty on Facebook, then leave a comment on our wall answering: Did you procrastinate your holiday shopping this year?

Thank you for entering. This contest is now closed.






One FOF will win.(See all our past winners, here.) (See official rules, here.) Contest closes January 5, 2011 at midnight E.S.T.
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22December   {Style Expert} Channeling Liz Taylor . . . on the cheap.


Finance experts will tell you that clothing and handbags are among the worst investments you can make--they rarely appreciate. This did not hold true for Liz Taylor.

"One of the greatest couture clients of all time," Liz was said to have still been "buying clothes right up until she went into the hospital for the last time." And this week, Liz Taylor's wardrobe was auctioned off for many multiples of it's estimated value, breaking world records and racking up over 154.2 million.

Couldn't make it to Christie's auction house last week? Or, let's be real, couldn't swing those record-breaking prices? There's still hope for you, FOF. We found 10 Liz knock-offs worth investing in.

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1. Liz Taylor's Gold and Multi-Gem Charm Bracelet, sold for $326,500


Liz for Less: Juicy Couture starter bracelet, starting at $38, and charms, starting at $29







Elizabeth began wearing her signature charm bracelets when she was a teenager. "By the age of fifteen...I really did have a new love in my life: jewelry. And I've been loyal to that love ever since." she writes in her book, My Love Affair with Jewelry. A total of five of Elizabeth's charm bracelets were auctioned off last week--each with the charms symbolizing different events in her life. "Everybody was always gifting her with golden mementos," writes Ruth Peltason in an article for Vanity Fair. "Zeffirelli, for Taming of the Shrew; Burton, for Cleopatra; there was even a Henry VIII gold half-sovereign of 1544. Sweetest yet: a gold ball-shaped locket engraved with the names of Elizabeth’s children."

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2. Liz Taylor's Lavender Gray Crocodile Trapezoid Shape Bag by Gianfranco Ferré, sold for $5,250


Liz for Less: Biyibi Croc-Grain Shoulder Bag, $68 or Manhattan Clutch with Chain from Aspinal of London, $460







Liz Taylor's trademark was her violet eyes and, appropriately, purple was her favorite color. She decorated her home with purple textiles and paint, adored lavender tulips, wrote love letters in purple ink and often donned the signature hue. Many lavender-, violet- and orchid-colored accessories, such as this bag, were among her collection.




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3. Liz Taylor's Donna Karan Black Velvet and White Satin Lined Caftan, sold for $9,375


Liz for Less: Silk velvet tunic from Soft Surroundings, $89.95, or Caftan solid maxi dress from Rachel Pally, $233







Vicky Teal, a designer who created custom caftans for Liz for 25 years, wrote in the Huffington Post, "The caftan was the ideal garment for an imprisoned movie star who loved to eat, and was also the perfect carefree, exotic ensemble to entice her handsome, sensual husband, Richard Burton." An entire corner of Liz Taylor's collection at Christie's auction house was dedicated to Liz Taylor's "cast of caftans," as Meredith Etherington-Smith, curator of the exhibit, called them in an interview with NPR. "A lot of them were made by Thea Porter who used to go around the Middle East, finding fabrics, and then reassembling them as kaftans," she explains in the interview.




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4. Liz Taylor's Ivory Sheer Chiffon and Ruffled blouse, sold for $1,250


Liz for Less: Gold Hawk Ruffled Blouse from Dillards, $99







Among Liz's auctioned clothing was a seemingly endless racks of flowy, silk and chiffon blouses from designers including Valentino, Versace and Christian Dior. According to The Telegraph, Gianni Versace was Liz's favorite designer, and her collection of Versace signature printed shirts is one of the "highlights" of the fashion and accessories sale.




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5. Liz Taylor's Brown Leather Saddle Bag, sold for $5,625


Liz for Less: Vintage Hand-Tooled Purse with Flower Detailing from Frisk Jewelry, $72









The first poster child for equestrian fashion, Liz Taylor starred in National Velvet in 1944, at just twelve years old. The movie, about a girl who prepares a wild but gifted horse for England's Grand National Sweepstakes, won two Oscars and launched Liz's career. Later, Liz recalled that while under contract to MGM as a child, the only time she "felt true freedom" was while riding her horse in the morning. As an adult, she often attended horse races including the 1968 Arc de Triomphe in Paris, with then-husband Richard Burton, and the 1986 races at California's Hollywood Park with Michael Jackson. From 1976 to 1982 she was married to Virginia senator John Warner, an avid horseman. The couple lived at Warner's Atoka Farm in Virginia. This Christian Dior saddle bag was purchased by Liz many years after the National Velvet's heyday, but it symbolizes her lifelong love of horses.




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6. Liz Taylor's Elegant Green Emerald Necklace, sold for $6.1 million


Liz for Less: Elegant Green Emerald Cubic Zirconia and Crystal Necklace from Overstock, $99.99









In the famed, on-again-off-again relationship between Richard Burton and Liz Taylor, Burton would win Elizabeth back each time with his charm... and lavish charms he gave her as gifts. One such gift was this emerald necklace from Bulgari, a jewelry store the two "discovered" while filming Cleopatra in Italy, where their love affair began. "I used to get so excited, I would jump on top of [Richard] and practically make love to him in Bulgari," Taylor is quoted saying in The New York Times in 2002." At first, Elizabeth waffled between a large emerald necklace and a smaller one, finally deciding on the smaller of the two. "Mr. B., you can't hardly get girls like that no more!'" Richard's friend told him. Elizabeth wore the necklace to meet HRH Queen Elizabeth II and for a photo shoot with Helmut Newton in 1985 in Los Angeles.




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7. Liz Taylor's 33.19-carat diamond ring, sold for $8,818,500


Liz for Less: Cubic Zirconia Ring form Overstock, $62.99









"My mother says I didn’t open my eyes for eight days after I was born, but when I did, the first thing I saw was her engagement ring. I was hooked!" Elizabeth Taylor once joked, according to InStyle. Her own "engagement ring" (or, at least, the ring she wore on her ring finger) was the "Krupp Diamond," a gift from Burton, who paid $305,000 for the 33.19-carat Harry Winston piece in 1968 (a record price for a diamond at that time). "This remarkable stone is called the Krupp diamond because it had been owned by Vera Krupp, of the famous munitions family that helped knock off millions of Jews," wrote Elizabeth Taylor in her book, My Love Affair with Jewelry. "When it came up for auction in the late 1960s, I thought, how perfect it would be if a nice Jewish girl like me were to own it. In truth, though, there's nothing funny about the Krupp. When I look into it, the deep Asscher cuts—which are so complete and ravishing—are like steps that lead into eternity and beyond. With its sparks of red and white and blue and purple, and on and on, really, it sort of hums with its own beatific life. To me, the Krupp says, 'I want to share my chemistry—my magic—with you.'"




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8. Liz Taylor's Van Cleef & Arpels turquoise and gold "Alhambra" Necklace, sold for $31,250


Liz for Less:
Clover Necklace from Bliz Of Glitz, $29.00









Among Liz Taylor's jewels at auction, there were at least four pieces of "Alhambra" jewelry, the now-ubiquitous clover-shaped charms, originally sold by Van Cleef & Arpels. Of course, Liz's pieces are the real thing, but a New York Magazine article from 2007 documents that knockoffs in this particular style have run rampant. "A New York socialite I know had her Alhambra necklace made on 47th Street for a quarter of the retail price... and Web sites such as Overstockjeweler.com offer copies for $180." Despite the cloverload of "Alhambra" necklaces on the market, one buyer paid $31,250 for Liz's bauble last week.




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9. Liz Taylor's
Fish Charm Necklace, sold for $30,000


Liz for Less:
Rainbow Trout Necklace from Etsy, $23 or Mermaid Tail Fish Starfish Necklace, $119 from Betsy Johnson









One fish, two fish... $30,000 fish!? Elizabeth Taylor's Van Cleef & Arpels fish charm necklace reeled in $30,000 at auction, surprising Christie's appraisers who valued the piece between $400 and $600. It seems Elizabeth may have had a fish fetish--there were multiple fish-themed jewels up for auction, and in 1993 she created a collection for Avon including some aquatic pieces. The reason behind her love for sea creatures is anyone's guess, although, one theory--the star, born February 27, 1932, was a Pisces.




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10. Liz Taylor's Gautier Poncho, sold for $35,000


Liz for Less: House of Holland poncho dress, $409.05 or West Coast Wardrobe Hooded Stripe Poncho, $52







"Ms. Taylor was going through a sort of modified hippie phase," said Meredith Etherington-Smith, about the period in the 1960s and 70s when Liz favored caftans and ponchos. Meredith is the curator of the fashion part of the Elizabeth Taylor exhibit. Perhaps, at the height of this "modified hippie" phase was her purchase of this Gautier Poncho "made of lycra mesh and woven with Mexican stripes."



22December   {Sleep} ‘Twas the week before Christmas…and you’re not sleeping enough!

Win a “nap sack,” including sheets, pillows, and iPod clock radio and eye pillow, to help you sleep better this holiday season, by answering in the comments below: What holiday-related tasks will you sacrifice shuteye for this week?



'Twas the week before Christmas... and you're not sleeping enough, says a recent study published by Sleepy's and conducted by Toluna, an independent research service. The study shows that the "most wonderful time of the year," is also the most sleep-deprived. Women, especially FOFs, push physical limits, sacrificing sleep for holiday chores. This past week, FOF Julianne Shannon tells us she pulled an "all-nighter" in order to turn her California home "into a  winter wonderland with faux snow and reindeer--a kind-of Santa's Workshop motif. Then, I took my son to school and came home to have a morning nap before work."

Julianne is not alone. More than half of women queried in the study expect to spend between one and four hours a night in December performing holiday-related tasks, cutting into crucial sleep time. The study reports that men will forfeit some sleep too, yet (no surprise here) they devote much less time to holiday chores.

According to sleep expert Robert deStefano, a woman over 50 should be getting seven to eight hours of sleep to function properly. "Throughout the year, women suffer stress-induced insomnia at a 2:1 ratio to men. That skyrockets over the holidays."

"Many women over 50 have lower sleep efficiency, meaning that their quality of sleep is much poorer," adds Dr. Steven Y. Park, M.D. an otorhinolaryngologist and Integrative Sleep Surgeon at Montefiore Medical Center.


"If her sleep is fragmented, the central nervous system is taxed and little stressors become magnified," says Robert. "Stress is a primary contributor to heart disease, the number one cause of death to women in the U.S."

"Lack of sleep (quantity or quality) is known to promote weight gain by increasing your physiologic stress levels," says Dr. Park. "It causes cravings of sugary or carbohydrate-laden foods, and metabolically makes you put on weight."

Seven to eight hours of sleep before the holidays?! Fat chance! Here's what the study shows that FOFs are doing instead of sleeping.

  • 46% sacrifice sleep for making or wrapping gifts



"I spent last night from midnight to 4 a.m. wrapping gifts for my 4 kids and making a dozen intricate holiday garlands for a fundraiser for our local museum,” says FOF Teri Miceli.

"I woke up from a dead sleep at midnight last night because I forgot I still had a dozen individual scrapbooks to finish and wrap for my co-workers... Was up until dawn on that one!" says FOF Tina Mulheisen.


96% put in extra hours baking, cooking, decorating or cleaning



Every year, FOF Francesca Kranzberg has a "cheesecake party" for 120 to 250 neighbors. She bakes 15 different varieties of the dessert--and non-cheesecake treats, too. "The last few days before our party I usually stay up until 2:30 or 3 a.m. finishing the baking, cleaning, etc., and arise at my usual 7 a.m. to get to work. While I always hope to get some sleep before the party, I am simply too nervous."
"Sleepless nights start before Thanksgiving, with bread baking and prepping pie crusts," says FOF Cathy Barrow of the cooking blog Mrs. Wheelbarrow's Kitchen. "As soon as that holiday is wrapped up, the holiday confections and cookies start. It takes two weeks to make twenty varieties (about 120 dozen) for my holiday cookie box. Lots of baking well past midnight. Plenty of mornings that start at 4 a.m., with cookies in the oven before the coffee is brewed. I mailed off all the treats on Monday, and now my holiday begins."



"In addition to my normal crazy party schedule, this year I volunteered to make 700 gift boxes of white chocolate dipped and decorate pretzels, oreos and rice crispy treats--up all night with that," says Alison Mesrop of Alison Mesrop Catering "Also made 20 flourless chocolate cakes complete with ganache frosting and glaceed fruit decor. In a sleep-deprived stupor at 3 a.m. I possessed the patience to separate prosciutto slices, painstakingly fitting into cups, baking them to make 500 crispy prosciutto cups."



45% are shopping online during hours they normally sleep.

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"I stay up to 11:30 p.m. shopping for clients last minute..not for myself," says FOF style guru Sherrie Mathieson, author of Steal This Style and Forever Cool. "Then it's hard to unwind, as the computer light affects melatonin cycles. They say that sleep  between 10 p.m. and 2 a.m. is most important, and I have sabotaged that rest time."

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Win a "nap sack," including sheets, pillows, an iPod clock radio and eye pillow, to help you sleep better this holiday season, by answering in the comments below: What holiday-related tasks will you sacrifice shuteye for this week?


One FOF will win.(See all our past winners, here.) (See official rules, here.) Contest closes December 29, 2011 at midnight E.S.T.
22December   {Health} The Queen Of All Diets?


The Dukan Diet helped one famous FOF shed the pounds, but is it right for the rest of us? FOF investigates.



When Kate Middleton and her FOF mother, Carole, arrived at the Royal wedding this past April, BBC newscasters couldn’t stop talking about two things: their clothes and their weight loss.

Carole--who had lost 2 dress sizes--publicly credited her svelte new physique to 69-year-old French diet doctor, Pierre Dukan. Kate has never revealed her own diet plan, although rumors swirl that she used Dukan as well.

Since the wedding, Dukan’s book, The Dukan Diet, has sold millions of copies and been translated into 14 languages. “I am a hopeless romantic, so of course I watched the royal wedding,” says FOF Patricia Hancock, a lifelong yo-yo dieter who bought the book in April and has since lost over 30 pounds following Dukan’s advice.


The diet has been touted by celebs including Salma Hayek and Jennifer Lopez.  But it’s also been controversial, with some medical experts alternately calling it everything from “unaffective” to “dangerous” in the press.


What’s the truth? Here, FOF presents the facts and talks to FOF Patricia about her experience.


For a chance to win your own copy of The Dukan Diet, read on, and then tell us in the comments below, would you try this diet? (3 FOFs will win!)


Dr. Pierre Dukan, MD, began his general medical practice over 35 years ago. According to his book, he became interested in nutrition after an overweight patient asked for a diet plan that didn’t restrict meat. Dukan advised the man to consume nothing but lean meat and water for five days. In that time, the patient lost 12 pounds. Encouraged, Dukan began studying nutrition in an attempt to create a diet that would help his overweight patients lose weight permanently--without feeling deprived. He spent the next 35 years perfecting his plan and gaining a reputation as a uniquely effective “diet doctor” in France. Today, his plan is consists of 4 phases:


Phase 1: Dukan calls this “The Attack” phase, during which you jump-start your weight loss by spending anywhere from 2 to 7 days (depending on your start weight) eating only from a group of 68 high-protein foods, including lean meats, fish, tofu, Greek yogurt and eggs. You’re also required to eat 1.5 tablespoons of oat bran a day to help you feel full. Unlike The Atkins Diet, with Dukan “you are not allowed fatty meats and cheese,” says Simone Gloger, a registered nutritionist who recommends the Dukan diet to her own patients. “Saturated fats found in these foods can cause cardiovascular disease. Atkins is high protein and high fat. Dukan is high protein, low fat and low carb.”

During this first phase, you also calculate your “true” weight--a number based on your age, height and dieting history. “This differs for everyone,” says Simone Gloger, “It’s a realistic number that is actually maintainable for life.” (You can calculate your “True Weight,” here.)


FOF Trisha, 57, was about 25 pounds overweight when she started the diet earlier this year. Heavy since she was a young girl, (“I grew up being called ‘Patty Fatty’”) she had tried everything from Weight Watchers to Atkins to aerobics, but was never able to keep the weight off for good. At just 4’11”, Trisha’s top weight was 181. When she started the Dukan diet, she was about 145. Today, 7 months later, she weighs 107.


Trisha’s “phase 1” lasted 5 days, during which she mostly ate eggs, chicken and fish. “I love protein, so that was not a problem,” she says. “And it wasn’t very long--just Monday to Friday.”



Phase 2: During “The Cruise Phase,” you add on 32 different vegetables, including some high-carb options such as carrots, pumpkin and beets.  “You’re on this until you reach your true weight,” says Gloger.  “Typically, that’s about 3 days for every pound you want to lose.”  So if you wanted to lose 30 pounds, you’d be in this phase for about 3 months. According to Dukan, the diet makes up for lack of variety by allowing you to eat as much as you want in any combination you prefer.

This type of high-protein, low-carb eating is especially effective for FOFs, says Gloger. “As you age and enter menopause, your body loses muscle mass, your metabolism slows and you gain weight. Eating protein speeds your metabolism and helps you build muscle. It also helps reduce water retention and improves collagen production--which makes your skin look better.”


“The hardest part for me was not eating cheese,” says Trisha of her Cruise Phase. “But I liked that I could eat as much protein as I wanted. When I did Weight Watchers, I was only allowed 18 points. I was hungry and thinking about food constantly. On Dukan, my husband and I would cook out, and I would eat a humongous, juicy hamburger, and the next morning I would have lost weight.”


Phase 3, “Consolidation,” starts once you’ve reached your “true weight.” It is designed to reintroduce a variety of foods back into your diet without causing the rebound weight gain that typically occurs after losing a lot of weight. You can add 2 slices of bread and 1 portion of fruit and cheese into your daily diet as well as 2 servings of carbs and 2 “celebration” meals per week. You remain in this phase for 5 days for every one pounds you’ve lost. “This phase is about learning how to eat properly,” says Gloger. “You can go out to dinner, enjoy wine and bread and fruit---but all within reason.”

Both Gloger and Trisha point out that they exercised some personal discretion during this phase--not following the rules exactly, but staying within a “safe” zone. “If you’re wheat or gluten intolerant, you can substitute the wheat bread for other grains,” says Gloger.


“I didn’t always give up my wine,” says Trisha. “But I’d have half a glass in the evening instead of a full glass.” It was during this phase that Trisha developed her food routine, a daily menu that she says has worked great for her. “I’m not a very creative person--I don’t come up with fancy recipes. I get up every morning and have Greek yogurt with fruit, followed by an apple or some other snack around 10.  For lunch I’ll have tofu mixed with tuna and some little pita pockets or maybe a hard-boiled egg sandwich. In the evening I might have salmon with lots of salad, some bread and wine.”



Phase 4, the permanent stabilization phase, is designed to last for, well . . . the rest of your life.  And it’s surprisingly non-restrictive. You can eat whatever you want as long as you spend one day a week on a pure protein diet (as in phase 1), continue to eat your 3 tablespoons of oat bran every day, and take the stairs instead of escalators and elevators. So what’s to keep you from eating pizza and ice cream for every meal?  Both Trisha and Gloger insist that just isn’t a problem.

“By the time someone has finished the first three phases, they’ve really changed,” says Gloger. “They’ve learned how to eat so that they feel better and look better and they don’t want to give that up. Also, after they eat indulgent foods, they don’t feel good.”

“I don’t want to go back to not feeling good,” confirms Trisha. “I love being able to go into the store and pick out a size 2--my whole life I was looking at sizes from 13-18. And I find that when I indulge, I really feel it. If I have a cupcake for example, I feel sick afterwards. I don’t want to overeat.”

While both Trisha and Gloger insist the diet could work “for anyone,” Trisha does admit that it was particularly tailored to her: “I love meat. I’d rather have a big juicy steak than a slice of pizza. I’m also patient, and I like to do things slowly and carefully, so I was willing to read the entire book and learn the science behind it. It made sense to me. I would say to anyone who is considering this diet, read the book first. Really read it. If it makes sense to you, it will work for you.”

For a chance to win your own copy of The Dukan Diet, tell us in the comments below, would you try this diet? (3 FOFs will win!)
20December   {Giveaway} A festive bag by Betty Audish
Betty Audish is giving away two of her "quintessential holiday" handbags--a bronze, leather clutch and a gold evening bag with a bow. Enter to win by answering in the comments below: Are you the kinda gal who thinks wearing bows is a go--or a "no?"




In 2001, fashion buyer Betty Audish's mother passed away. The event made Betty realize just how precious life is, and she decided she couldn't waste any more time before tackling her lifelong dream--designing her own handbag line. That year, Betty Audish handbags was born.

The first bags in her collection were luncheon-style, in honor of her mother. "My mom was very classic and carried small luncheon bags like the ones in Breakfast at Tiffany's," says Betty. "She always had trouble finding them, which made me realize there was a real whole in the market."

Since then, Betty's line has expanded to bags of all styles--day bags, totes, evening bags and clutches. In 2006 she introduced bags made with exotic skins--now her bestsellers. "Python is the new black," says Betty, who manufactures bags in 19 colors of python and 13 colors of crocodile.

Betty's warehouse and company headquarters is in Pearland, Texas, but her bags are sold in high-end specialty stores across the country. Betty's bags were recently feature in Houston magazine and chosen as the "Item of the Day" in  Accessories Magazine who called them "timeless pull-it-out-in-10-years-and-it’s-still-as-amazing bags."

To find a retailer of Betty Audish bags in your area or order one of the bags featured above (ships nationwide) call: 281-300-3202.


Enter to win one of two leather bags by
Betty Audish by answering in the comments below: Are you the kinda gal who thinks wearing bows is a go--or a "no?"

Thank you for entering. This contest is now closed.

Two FOFs will win.(See all our past winners, here.) (See official rules, here.) Contest closes December 29, 2011 at midnight E.S.T.
20December   {Beauty Testing} Clientele Lavender Lift Oil-Control Powder


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Clientele Skincare, founded by award-winning scientist Dr. Pat Riley, was once available only through dermatologists' offices. Now, more than thirty years since the company launched its first product, the line is available to everyone through to everyone through thir website. Four FOFs put Clientele’s Lavender Lift Oil-Control Face Powder to the test. The company claims this oil-free, ultra-sheer powder will absorb excess oil, make pores visibly smaller and keep makeup fresh without a dry or cakey look. Did this powder perform? Read on...


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How long did you use this product?
Several weeks.

Please describe your experience with this product.
The clientele powder was heavier than my usual makeup, plus I had to wear my makeup just a bit heavier to cover up the paler shade of the clientele powder. The clientele powder smelled great but really didn't work for me.

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What could make this product better?
When I used the applicator sponge that came with the product, it went on too heavy for me. I then used an application brush and that was better.

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Were the directions given to you clear?
Yes.

Did the product meet or exceed your expectations?
It exceeded them.

Would you use this product again?
Yes!

Please describe your experience with this product.
Except for the messiness, I actually replaced the finishing powder I normally use from Bare Minerals with this product because it helps my makeup stay on longer and really delivered on the hydration promise.

What could make this product better?
There is no cover on top of the holes when you shake the product out so it’s quite messy. A lock/unlock/shake system, a la Bare Minerals products, would serve this product well.

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Were the directions given to you clear and understandable?
Yes.

Did the product meet or exceed your expectations?
It was about what I expected.

Please describe your experience with this product.
I used the product for several weeks in lieu of other face powders I normally use. It gave me a smooth finish, seemed to handle the oil, but I can’t say that it lasted any longer than many of the other products on the market. I think the lavender color made me look a little washed out and I found myself applying more bronzer and blush to compensate.

Would you use this product again?
I wouldn't buy this product. Not because I didn't like it, but because it didn't do anything special for me that would make me want to spend the money.

What could make this product better?
The thin little powder puff [applicator] seemed cheap. I would think either a nice puff or a brush, might make it seem more upscale.

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Please describe your experience with this product. Overall, my experience was excellent. The product kept my shine to a minimum and was absolutely weightless. I was waiting for the Virginia heat and humidity to arrive so I could report how the product worked under ‘steamy’ conditions, but we actually had a mild year.



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Leave a comment below to be entered for a chance to test Revitalash Advanced Eyelash Conditioner ($98). 6 women will receive this product to test.



By entering this contest you are agreeing to test and submit a written review of this product to FabOverFifty and send a photo of yourself to accompany the published story.

(See all our past winners. See official rules. Participants will be chosen at random from all those who leave a comment. Contest closes December 27, 2011.)
20December   {Best of 2011} Our favorites from this year, revealed.


Drum roll, please... We've compiled a list of our 15 favorite beauty products and gadgets, fashion accessories, books and more that we've featured on FabOverFifty in 2011. The best part? You can win them all. Find out more here.

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1. PaloVia at-home laser, $499: PaloVia, how we love thee. Let us count the ways. First, you replicate expensive in-office laser treatments so now we can do them in the comfort of our homes (for a much lower cost). Second, you've been proven to reduce fine lines and wrinkles around the eyes. And third, our members said you really do work(!)--read all their rave reviews, here.

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2. The Baking with Dorie app, $7.99: Our favorite FOF cookbook author now has her own app. Based on the idea that we all have different cooking styles, the app has four different ways to view each recipe. Have cookbooks gone the way of the dodo? If this app is any indication--it's certainly probable.

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3. A hand-painted scarf from Jill Kirsh, starting at $150. We ran a giveaway with Jill's gorgeous scarves in October, and it turned out to be one of our most popular fashion contests to date. These scarves have it all--they're one-of-a-kind and hand-painted in your most flattering colors according to Jill's color matching system.

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4. The Makeup Wakeup: Revitalizing Your Look at Any Age, $15.64: Two of our favorite FOF makeup experts, Lois Joy Johnson and Sandy Linter, have teamed up to create a beauty book for FOFs. It’s chock full of product recommendations, step-by-step tutorials and cosmetic solutions (surgical and non-surgical), just for us!

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5. “Graham” leather stud bracelet from Gorjana, $55: Over 200 of you raced to enter our giveaway last month for these gorgeous leather wrap bracelets from Gorjana--reminiscent of the iconic Hermes double-strap watch, but at a price point slight less than $2,700. At just $55, we couldn't believe they're made from genuine leather and 18K gold-plated accents. Oh, and they come in over 30 colors. We’d give our right arm for this, and apparently you all agree.

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6. Victoria McGill Eye Defining Contour Strips, $9.99 for 16 strips: One of our most popular beauty giveaways yet--nearly 500 FOFs entered to win this product that promises a non-surgical solution to droopy eyelids. Anything to avoid going under the knife, right?

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7. BeautySleep drink, $21.90 for 6 bottles: A drink that helps you get more shut-eye? Sounded like a bunch of baloney to us, too. But, your raving reviews made us BeautySleep believers. How could we have been sleeping on this one until just now?

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8. Asprinpods, $28 for 10: A bestseller this year in the FabOverFifty shop, this genius keychain could save your life. Find out more.

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9. FabGown by Goodnighties, $54.95: Another FabOverFifty shop bestseller, this night gown is made with the same material that pro athletes wear--so it keeps you cool, eases pain, improves sleep and looks great. "Thank you FOF for... such a great product!" wrote an FOF who bought one and reviewed it. "I love this fabric - it's like magic and I've never slept better!" Read more 5-star reviews.

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10. Alpine Rose 3-Step System by Dermelect, $193: We run weekly beauty product tests on our site but one of our most favorable responses yet, was to this product trio by Dermelect made with cell extracts from the resilient Alpine Rose. "After 10 days using this, I stopped wearing my foundation," wrote one FOF in her review.

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11. Wheat Belly book, $15.96: You couldn't stop buzzing about an interview with Dr. William Davis we published in November. His groundbreaking new book suggests eliminating wheat from your diet to lose weight. But, does it actually work? "I have downloaded his book.. and read it. I have lost 14 lbs and I can boast, I am not hungry," commented one FOF on the story. "Dr. Davis gives great advice and I can attest to the diet actually working. Bravo, easiest diet I have ever been on."

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12. Locket from Stella Saves the Day, starting at $88: Over 200 FOFs entered a giveaway last month for a custom, embroidered locket from the Etsy shop Stella Saves the Day. "Love the retro look of the locket, but with a a new spin," wrote FOF FabulousMimi. We couldn't have said it better, ourselves.

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13. Tarte ReCreate anti-aging foundation with Wrinkle Rewind technology, $37. FOF Beauty Guru Tracy Brown, of the BlingingBeauty blog says she splurges on this foundation from Tarte. "As we age, our skin has so many more needs. Look for foundations that contain anti-aging properties such as this one." If there's such a thing as an FOFoundation--this is it.

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14. Brazillian Peel, $78: Remember the episode of Sex and the City where Samantha gets an impulse peel, her doctor leaves it on too long, and she ends up looking like a boiled lobster? This is virtually impossible with Brazillian Peel, a chemical treatment that actually turns itself off. Then, it “brightens, tightens, and smooths your skin” Revolutionary! (Plus, FOF Founder Geri Brin is a huge fan.)

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15. Bras by Le Mystère, starting at $36.99: The line for Le Mystère bra fittings wrapped around the room at the FOF Beauty Bash this year. No surprise here--these bras are comfortable and gorgeous. “It gives extra support under fitted clothes and light fabrics without feeling like you’re wearing a mattress,” says Today Show style expert and FOF Charla Krupp about the bras.

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19December   {Fashion Flash}

Fashion Flash time! This week, it's hosted by Menopause Makeover, the go-to site for tips on weight loss during menopause, researched and written by FOF author Staness Jokenos who successfully executed her own 12-week menopause makeover and ended up in better shape than she was in her twenties (see her amazing before and afters). Check out her advice and enjoy all the other links from our fab Fashion Flash friends.





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15December   {Dating} What advice would you give your 25-year-old self about love?


If we only knew what we know, now! FOFs, if you could go back and give your 25-year-old self some dating advice, what would it be? Read some wise words about love from other FOFs, and tell us your own advice in the comments below. We're putting together our favorite advice for a special Valentine's Day eBook!

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Staness Jonekos is author of the bestselling book, The Menopause Makeover (2010). At 47, Staness got engaged for the first time to the love of her life--her very own "Mr. Right," as she calls him. You can read her personal story here.

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"I wish someone had told me when I was 25 that:

1. Dating is an interview process, and YOU are doing the interviewing. Qualify your candidates.

2. Men love a mission – be his mission!

3. A man can never read your mind – tell him what you want, don’t tell him how to 'be.'

4. If you want to be pursued, don’t pursue.

5. Never lose yourself in a relationship, always place your needs first. The right man will want that for you because when you are happy, he is happy.

6. Don't marry a rich man. Marry a good man. He will spend his life trying to keep you happy. No rich man can buy that! (Of course, if he is rich AND good-–jackpot!)"

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Sherry DeRosa is a life skills coach. Sherry met her current husband Michael in her 50s, and soon after, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. Michael supported Sherry while she fought the disease. The two married in 2009 on an ocean terrace in Laguna Beach. Read the entire story here.


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"Trust life, love and remain true to oneself. The latter is the hardest thing to learn. At 25, we want to rush everything, get everything done and set for the 'future.' Instead, live in the present."

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Candida Royalle is an erotic film pioneer, entrepreneur, and author of How to Tell a Naked Man What to Do. Candida is divorced, but a few years ago, she fell in love and experienced "the most fulfilling sex of my adult life...in my fifties!" she says. She was engaged but broke it off. "I felt we were incompatible in other ways. But, I think it shows that one is never too old to have a fulfilling, intimate life. And, I’m sure there’s another great love affair in me."

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1. "Be clear about what you’re looking for. Are you interested in finding a man who’s marriage material? Or are you just looking for someone to have fun with? When I was younger, I'd often fall in love with men but then later decide they weren’t appropriate for building a life together. My lack of personal clarity and planning in relationships ultimately led to disappointment and heartbreak for one or both of us. My girlfriends who knew what they wanted, tended to have achieved their desired outcomes with love.

2. Nobody is perfect, we all have flaws. If you focus on what drives you crazy about someone, you will drive yourself right out of the relationship. If you focus on what you like, you have a much better shot at finding deep, lasting and intimate love.


3. Do NOT move in with someone within the first year, and do NOT become engaged or get married before you’ve spent at least 2 years together! The first two years are pretty much a masquerade, where you each put your best face forward while also seeing only the best in one another. Wait for the dust to settle, and find out who you’re really hanging out with before giving up that great apartment with reasonable rent and before putting the down payment on an expensive wedding hall!

4. If you want to know what kind of lover he is, watch the way he eats. Does he take his time eating, savoring each bite and enjoying the flavor and texture of his food? This is probably a man who takes his time making love and enjoys more sensual, caressing lovemaking. If you’re a woman who likes to cut to the chase, past all the touching and cuddling and go right to the end goal, then the guy with a ravenous appetite who plows through his food is the one for you!

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Pamela Madsen is a leading sex expert, founder of the American Fertility Association and author of SHAMELESS: How I Ditched The Diet, Got Naked, Found True Pleasure and Somehow Got Home In Time To Cook Dinner which is #1 on Amazon's “Hot New Releases in Sexual Therapy.” She and her husband recently celebrated their 30-year anniversary. Read more about Pamela here.

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"I would tell my 25-year-old self that I was truly beautiful–and that any man would be lucky to get me! I remember not believing in my own beauty at that age. I thought everything was a little bit wrong–my weight, my hair, etc. I'd also tell myself to give the guy a chance! So many young women have this checklist of what the perfect guy should look like, act like, etc. Cut them a break and get to know them. Last, sex is good--but precious. Truly think about who you share yourself with."

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Francesca Kranzberg, is one of FabOverFifty's marvelous makeover winners. She works for JConnect in Maryland, helping newcomers get acquainted with the community. She met her husband at the age of 27, through a Jewish matchmaking service.

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"I'd give myself the same advice I give my 25-year-old daughter:



1. Don't rush into anything

2. Don't become exclusive until you are sure you have found someone you want to be with. Dating around helps you to learn what traits are important in a mate--and also, what you can live without.

3. Guys love the chase. Don't be too available or they will lose interest. If a guy calls you on Thursday or Friday for a Saturday night, tell him you already have plans, or even a date.

4. Once you are sure you have found 'the one,' let him know it. But, also let him know that you will walk away if he can't commit by a certain date.  In other words, give him an ultimatum. If he can't commit, then you aren't walking away from much.

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Gerri Shute enjoyed a wonderful career in the world of executive recruiting as Vice President of Research for a leading international firm. After she left an 11-year relationship in her late 40s, Gerri met David, the love of her life who she ultimately married. "It was a love affair to the end," Gerri says. David died of Parkinson's in 2008.

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"Don't settle. If after the first date or second date, it doesn't feel right, stop there. Don't get into something where you'll ultimately get hurt or not have the opportunity to open your heart completely. I remember in my 20s I went to a guy's garden apartment for a drink. It was our first date. Well, the apartment was a total man cave and he gave me a dusty wine glass. I couldn't wait to get out of there. Your first instincts are best. On my first date with David, we were both very relaxed--we never stopped talking and never had an awkward moment. When we got married, my wedding dressmaker said to me 'Gerri, you didn't settle." She was right! David was the love of my life."
15December   {Giveaway} A 30-minute horoscope reading and an astrological scarf


Win a 30-minute horoscope reading with bestselling author and astrologer, FOF Joanna Martine Woolfolk, plus her gorgeous Hermes-inspired astrological scarf. One FOF will win this grand prize. Twelve FOFs will win one of Joanna's new Sun Signs books, which tell you all about your zodiac sign. To enter, comment below and answer: What is your zodiac sign?


As a young girl, FOF Joanna Martine Woolfolk wanted to be an astronomer or an actress. She didn’t end up a star in the traditional sense, but she certainly spends a lot of time studying them. “My love for astronomy translated into a career in astrology," says Joanna. "What the stars and planets have to say about us, our relationships and how we react to life’s events is much more interesting to me then figuring out where to find Jupiter in the sky.”Joanna has been practicing astrology for over forty years. She’s written multiple books on the topic, including The Only Astrology Book You’ll Ever Need, a 20-year bestseller, and Sexual Astrology, now in it’s 50th printing in the U.S., where it has sold over a million copies. She’s been interviewed by Barbara Walters, Regis Philbin and Sally Jessy Raphael.

Joanna is also a contributing editor for Marie Claire where she has written the monthly horoscope column for eight years. But astrology isn’t just for teenagers who want to know the fate of their crushes, she insists. Here, she explains how FOFs can find answers by looking to the stars….

What got you into astrology?
I was interested in the stars and the planets since I was young. As an adult, I began to study astrology on my own. I started doing an astrology column in the 70s for Viva, Bob Guccione’s [publisher of Penthouse] magazine for women, and things took off from there. I enrolled in the American Federation of Astrologers program to become certified. It was sort of a long, circuitous route, but when you talk to women over 50, that’s what our lives are. We’ve taken this side path or married this man and even in our careers, very few of us start out at the age of 15 and say I’m going to be a brain surgeon and then continue on that path.


Very true. Do you think being a Libra has affected your destiny?
I believe our lives play out in the way they were destined to, but, within that we have choices. As I said before, I know a lot of women over 50 who have taken many different side paths. Our destiny is two-fold--it arrives, and then we make a choice. Your choices are based on what you need and who you are.


How is our zodiac sign determined?
Your astrological sign is the sign in the zodiac that the sun was traveling through at the time of your birth. Our zodiac is divided into 12 signs (i.e. Aries, Taurus, Gemini) and the sun spends approximately one month in each sign.


What's the correct terminology--sun sign or zodiac sign?
In astrology, it is called your 'sun sign,' but in ordinary conversation is usually referred to as just your 'sign' or 'zodiac sign.' However, everyone is born with a whole chart. The moon was somewhere when you were born; Venus was somewhere, and Mars, etc. Your sun sign (the position of the sun when you were born) represents what Freud would call the Ego -- your role in life and your drive. Your moon sign (the position of the moon when you were born), represents the Id, your inner life, secrets and longings. The ascendant, or the rising sign, is what Freud would call your super-ego or how you want the world to see you.


How can an FOF find out where the sun, the moon and the planets were when she was born?
My book, The Only Astrology Book You’ll Ever Need, covers everything--your sun sign, your moon sign, your ascendant, where the planets were when you were born. It goes through piece by piece so you can create an entire chart.


What else are you working on?

I’ve just come out with my new Sun Signs series, one book for each sign of the Zodiac.

Tell me about your beautiful astrology scarves.
Years ago I saw a fabulous Hermes scarf based around the '12 Days of Christmas.' I thought ‘what a wonderful idea.’ I worked with an artist on a design for a scarf based around the sun signs.


Is astrology a viable career for someone over 50?
Yes. I would say the person would have to be interested in psychology--what makes people tick--that is key. If they wanted to write an astrology column, it’s not as easy. There aren’t that many magazines that need a horoscope columnist. It’s about as competitive as breaking into show business.


Are there astrology skeptics? What do you say to them?
People who say astrology is a bunch of whatever--that’s fine. I’ve noticed that many of them still read their horoscopes. What’s fascinating about astrology is it’s about you, and as human beings we find that irresistible.


What can we expect for next year?
Saturn is the great disciplinarian of astrology. It represents your lessons, hardships, your struggles, and, in the end, the reward you get for putting in that kind of work. Next year Saturn is going to move out of Libra and into Scorpio, so I can say the struggle that Saturn has been bringing to each of our lives is going to culminate early in the year and will be finished with by autumn. If we are wise, we will learn from what we have been through and move into the next cycle with greater knowledge. Jupiter, the planet of abundance and expansion, has recently entered Taurus, the sign of getting and gaining. Depending on an individual's chart, this may mean gaining financially or in learning or expertise.  It may mean one experiences an addition to the family (such as a new child), or even the gain of weight!
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Enter to win a a 30-minute horoscope reading with bestselling author and astrologer, FOF Joanna Martine Woolfolk, plus her gorgeous Hermes-inspired astrological scarf. One FOF will win this grand prize. Twelve FOFs will win one of Joanna's new Sun Signs books, which tell you all about your zodiac sign. Leave a comment below to enter.

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