I believe that you are what you think. Of course you've got to do the work to get what you want, but because you really want it, and because you work hard for it, when it happens, it is a blessing that you helped happen. Stay away from angry, confused, and uptight people. See the good in everybody unless there isn't any there and then have the brains to run away. Do you know that humans are the only species that doesn't run when they feel something is wrong? I learned the hard way. But I finally learned to trust my gut feelings. Also, I love Olay products!