Are YOU Comfortable In Your Own Skin?

[ANONYMOUS POLL] What Are Your Cleansing Habits?

It’s always enlightening to learn what other women in our generation are thinking and doing. Every Thursday, FabOverFifty asks members of our community a series of simple questions about pretty complex issues (and some not so complex issues),  then we report the results to you the following week.

Today, we’re asking about your cleansing routine, because what we do in the shower or bath can really make an impact on the health of our skin.

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[ANONYMOUS POLL] Are You Comfortable In Your Own Skin?

It’s always enlightening to learn what other women in our generation are thinking and doing. Every Thursday, FabOverFifty asks members of our community a series of simple questions about pretty complex issues, then we report the results to you the following week.
Today, we’re asking how you feel about your body image, an especially relevant subject as we age, and have to work pretty darn hard to stay physically fit, mentally alert and to feel good about the way we look.

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Ending Relationships After 50

Keepin’ It Cool In The Heat!

newterry1If you don’t have the luxury of lying on a beach or at a pool during the “dog days of summer” * (don’t forget to apply 30 SPF sunscreen), it’s no fun getting dressed to go to work, or even to the grocery store.

Our Fave FOFashionista, Terry Gibralter, to the rescue, with 14 tips and tricks to stay cool, calm and collected when the temperature starts soaring.

* Interestingly, the expression “dog days of summer” harks back to the ancient Greens and Romans, who discovered that the dog star, Sirius, appeared to rise just before the sun, in late July, during the hottest days of the year.

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POLL: Have YOU Cut Toxic People Out Of Your Life?

It’s always enlightening to learn what other women in our generation are thinking and doing. Every Thursday, FabOverFifty asks members of our community a series of simple questions about pretty complex issues, then we report the results to you the following week.
Today, we’re asking about changing relationships, because if there’s one thing we hear over and over, it’s that we want to eliminate the “toxic” people in our lives as we age.

1. How old are you?

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2. Have you cut off relationships with any of the following in the last 5 years? (check all that apply)

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3. If you answered yes to #2, why did you sever the relationship(s)? (check all that apply)

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4. If you answered yes to #2, do you regret cutting anyone off?

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5. If you answered yes to #4, who do you regret cutting off? (check all that apply)

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6. How many “best friends” do you have?

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7. Are you closer with your best friends than with your siblings?

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8. How often do you see your siblings?

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9. How long have you known your dearest friend?

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10. What do you value most in your friends? (check all that apply)

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Terry’s Top 10 Packing Tricks!

Summertime means vacation time, and whether you’re off for a long weekend or winging it to a faraway exotic locale, you need to master the pack. FOFriend and fashion guru, Terry Gibralter, comes to the rescue with her top tips for packing with ease.

 

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1. Limit your colors

Stick to a travel wardrobe built around three or four colors, to simplify packing choices and to help you look instantly more pulled together. Base your color choices on the colors in the tote bag or scarf you’ll be wearing with every outfit during your trip. Here’s a grouping from my shop.
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2. Lay it all out

Lay out everything you plan to take before you pack, to see what goes with what and to make sure it all works. This allows for a tight edit and a chance to eliminate a few unnecessary things.

3. Roll, don’t fold

Rolled items will take up less space AND be less wrinkled when you unpack them. Plastic from the dry cleaner makes an excellent cushion to help eliminate wrinkles (in clothes.)

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4. Always take this

A large soft wrap that can be used for everything, from a blanket to a sarong to a sexy strapless dress, is our top travel pick.

5. Edit your shoes

Try to stick to just three pairs of shoes for any trip. For summer, take two pairs of sandals–one flat and one with heels–and a pair of sneakers.

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6. Protect your clothes

Cover the soles of your shoes with plastic shower caps before packing them.

7. Stuff shoe bags

Use shoe bags to separate the things you’re bringing, so they’ll be easy to find and to repack. Pack underwear, jewelry, delicates, swimwear, scarves, etc. in different bags.

8. Store, don’t sip

Stringing your delicate necklaces through plastic straws will keep them untangled and protected. You also can use old eyeglass cases to store jewelry, cords and chargers.

9. Containing your cosmetics

Contact lens cases make great mini containers for small amounts of moisturizer, concealer and serums. And of course, vacation is the time to use the great skincare and cosmetic samples you’ll been collecting all year!

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10. Be a bag lady

Don’t forget to travel with a bunch of different-sized bags for everything from storing dirty laundry to stashing souvenirs. Lightweight promotional totes work especially well because they don’t take up too much room, but they’re sturdy enough to do the job.

shutterstock_286970807_3Bon voyage! Look great and have fun!

And make sure to check out H*O*T, Terry’s shop-full of vintage clothes and accessories, where you just might find a handbag, shirt or brooch you must bring along on your trip. Her prices are as beautiful as her collection!

24% Of You Give This To Your Parents Each Year

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Financing A Timeshare In No Time!

This is a “sponsored post.” LightStream compensated FOF with an advertising sponsorship to write it, and provides more information at LightStream.com.   Regardless, I only recommend products or services I believe will be helpful for my readers. All insights and expressed opinions are my own. —Geri Brin

You’ve loved getting away with the family to (fill in the blank) for as long as you can remember, and now that the kids are grown, you can’t wait to make the great escape, just the two of you.  You’re so comfortable there, and you’ve made so many friends over the years, it almost feels like home.  You’re even thinking of buying a timeshare, so it actually can become home.

You’re not alone. The timeshare industry increased nearly 11 percent in 2013, to $7.6 billion, according to the American Resort Development Association (ARDA).  Over 190,000 units were available in about 1,500 timeshare resorts in the United States, with 29 percent more resorts planned for 2014;  Europe has thousands more, not to mention the rest of the world. As the popularity of timeshares has grown, so too has the cost of a timeshare. The average sales price for U.S. timeshares  in 2013 increased 9 percent, to $20,460.

Many people learn that they save money by owning a timeshare, because they can lock in future vacation accommodations at today’s prices, and have the option to rent their timeshare space or share it with family and friends. Timeshare owners have the flexibility of choosing where and when they wish to travel, the amount of vacation time they want to take,  and the size of the unit. Timeshare owners often belong to an exchange, so they can “swap” their units yearly for other destinations worldwide.

You might be interested to know that you can possibly finance a timeshare at a low fixed interest rate, and pay off the loan agreement from your income. This will allow you to keep your assets intact.

As a matter of fact, LightStream is offering qualified customers unsecured timeshare loans at rates starting as low as 5.99% APR* with AutoPay. Visit the site for all the details.

LightStream doesn’t require you to complete complex paperwork for its approval process, and you don’t have to secure collateral as with other types of loans. Plus, if you have good-to-excellent credit, you can apply online for a timeshare loan in the morning and have the money in your checking account as soon as that same day** (As you’ll see below!)

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FOF spoke with Julie Olian, vice president at LightStream, to learn more about its timeshare financing, so you can own a piece of a dream vacation home, and save oodles over the cost of  hotel vacations, if you plan right.

FOF: DO YOU HAVE ANY ADVICE ON HOW TO DECIDE HOW MUCH YOU SHOULD SPEND ON A TIMESHARE?

LIGHTSTREAM: We would never encourage you to spend more than you can afford, on anything. But we believe that anyone who has good-to-excellent credit, proven over the years, is smart with her money and really knows how to manage her finances. LightStream is a great financing option for those who don’t want to liquidate high-performing assets to pay for a timeshare.

HOW HIGH DO YOUR TIMESHARE LOAN INTEREST RATES GO, AND WHAT DETERMINES THE RATE?

Though rates can change, our current fixed rates for timeshare financing (with AutoPay) start at 5.99% APR with AutoPay, depending on the size of the loan; the length of time for which it’s taken; and the borrower’s unique financial position. We look at every applicant individually.

HOW MUCH CAN I BORROW FOR THE TIMESHARE?

You can borrow from $5,000 to $100,000.

LIGHTSTREAM PROVIDES UNSECURED PERSONAL LOANS. WHY DON’T YOU REQUIRE ANY COLLATERAL?

We lend to people because they have shown that they manage their finances responsibly. You might have a car that you’ve paid off; are up to date on your mortgage payments; don’t have a lot of credit card debt, and aren’t under water with things such as college loans. You’ve demonstrated, over time, that if you take out a loan, you pay it back.

We believe that if you’ve managed your finances well, you deserve a better loan experience.

ARE THERE ANY ‘HIDDEN’ FEES?

LightStream does not charge fees. Period. What you see is what you get. We don’t charge to apply nor do we add points (a percentage of the loan amount that’s tacked on to the loan itself), closing costs or account servicing charges. Also, the interest rate on your loan is fixed (and highly competitive!), so it won’t go up over time.

Lightstream-Papers1PLEASE SUMMARIZE THE PROCESS FOR GETTING TIMESHARE FINANCING.

Simply fill out and submit a brief application that you’ll find online at LightStream.com. During business hours, we’ll review your credit, savings and assets, and get back to you quickly. If you’re approved, you’ll receive an email, detailing a few short steps necessary to e-sign your loan agreement, set up monthly billing and choose a funding date to activate your loan.  It’s a quick, straightforward process that can be done entirely online. (Although we do have an amazing customer service team that’s available to answer your questions.)

HOW DO YOU DETERMINE “GOOD” CREDIT?

You can find answers to this question, and others, on our website, but generally, someone has “good” credit if they have several years of credit history with a variety of accounts types, such as major credit cards, installment debt (a car loan, for example), and mortgage debt (if applicable). They also have few, if any payment delinquencies; have shown an ability to save; and have a sufficient income and assets to pay back current loan obligations, as well as the new loan from LightStream.

ONCE A TIMESHARE LOAN IS APPROVED, DO I HAVE TO ACCEPT IT RIGHT AWAY?

No, our offer is good for 30 days.

IF I ALREADY OWN A TIMESHARE, CAN I REFINANCE IT THROUGH LIGHTSTREAM?

Yes, if you already own a timeshare, you can possibly refinance it through LightStream for as low as a 5.99% APR with AutoPay.

clickFOR MORE INFORMATION AND TO APPLY FOR A LIGHTSTREAM TIMESHARE LOAN.

* The APR listed is for an unsecured timeshare or fractional purchase loan between $10,000 and $25,000 with a term between 24 and 36 months, for applicants with excellent credit. Your APR may differ based on loan purpose, amount, term, and your credit profile. Rate is quoted with AutoPay repayment option. Rates under the invoicing option are 0.50% higher. Subject to credit approval. Conditions and limitations apply. Advertised rates and terms are subject to change without notice.

** LightStream can fund your loan today if today is a banking business day, your application is approved, and you complete the following steps by 2:30 p.m. Eastern time: (1) review and electronically sign your loan agreement; (2) provide us with your funding preferences and relevant banking information; and (3) complete the final verification process.

How Do You Help Support Your Aging Parents?

Many of us are helping to care for our aging parents, whether we’re providing physical or financial support, maybe even both. This is one of the complex issues we face in our busy lives, which are increasingly filled with demands from all sides. Please share some of the details of your situation with others in our community of exceptional women.

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1. How old are you?

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2. If your mother is still alive, how old is she?

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3. If your father is still alive, how old is he?

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4. Do your parent(s) need financial support?

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5. If you answered yes to #3, how much support do they need a year?

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7. Do one or both of your parents need physical support?

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8. If you answered yes to question #7, what level of dependence?

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9. Do either of your parents suffer from dementia?

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10. Do your sibling(s) do more or less than you to help out your parents, in general?

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11. Do you resent your siblings if you do more for your parents than they do?

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