I will be 52 in May and over this past year I have really started noticing jowls more all the time. I always use moisturizers and firming lotions. Do you believe there any true “firming lotions” available to the average woman? I always did look younger than my stated age but this past year I don’t believe I do anymore with the extreme stress of watching my dad slowly pass away and then five months later losing our uncle who was like our second father. Reccomendations on firming creams would be wonderful.