Here’s a question for the Style experts. I can’t help it, I really like the look of UGGS, but I don’t want to look like I’m trying too hard. Which style would be appropriate for a more “mature” woman?
Here’s a question for the Style experts. I can’t help it, I really like the look of UGGS, but I don’t want to look like I’m trying too hard. Which style would be appropriate for a more “mature” woman?
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JustD wrote on :
I own lots of Koolaburras and Australian Luxe boots, no UGGS…yet, and I get lots of compliments all the time from a wide variety of folks. I just do me, that’s what I’m about. Whether I’m wearing effortless chic or sophisticated classic, I’m just doing me. I’m 58, and my closet boasts Armani to VS PINK (pink’s just for home btw) and Loeffler to Frye, it’s about what I like, not the stylists, bloggers or the latest trends. While I’m still able to carry it off and I’m happy with me, I’m going to wear it. It’s not about impressing anyone, because that’s just way to hard to care about what others think. I’m comfortable with the skin I’m in. And you look great enough that any UGGS you put on will not be an issue for you whatsoever.
shellyleer wrote on :
Hi JustD,
Here’s how I see it. Sometimes women like me are paying more attention to other things, like in my case, furniture, interiors, how things are made. In my work, when I meet someone who is trying to turn her 1950’s Modern house into a traditional looking house, I want to tell her that they should move. It’s not the right architecture for their tastes. If she was fully aware and educated, she may have chosen a house that better suited their style. Apply that to women who haven’t paid attention to fashion as they have gone into the FOF years. We’re so busy doing what we do, we aren’t keeping up on basic know how as to how to flatter our particular bodies, build and coloring. Just to buy what’s out there isn’t enough anymore. We need to put some more thought into the cut, fabric, style, etc. Additionally, sometimes we just don’t see ourselves as others see us. I am willing to defer to a style expert who gets me, my work, what I feel comfortable in, and so on. One look does not fit all. I have already put this into practice in the last week after reading FOF stylist Sherrie Mathieson’s two books. I saw through photos, that there were some basic principles that, in fact, will make me look more hip than what I was trying to put together. I like myself, and I’m comfortable in my own skin, I just don’t think I’m interested enough in clothes to know what to buy and wear. It’s just like people turning their decorating over to interior designers because they know their own limitations and they appreciate a well designed space. I envy women like you who are obviously very in touch with style and brands and can put them together well. I just need help doing it. I’d rather find out about a new tool Dremel is selling and what you can do with it. I know, pretty pathetic. Always wanting to be cool and chic though!
Corinne Garrett wrote on :
Skip them…they simply are not flattering, even though they are warm. It is much more chic to wear a nice leather boot and go with warm socks.
shellyleer wrote on :
I’ve got all sorts of boots. I just need one really practical, furry warm pair.
Corinne Garrett wrote on :
LOL! Then accessorize with really furry, warm soft electric socks. OR get those hand/feet warmer things you buy for skiing and put them in the toes of your boots! Who says you have to have a pair of clunky, overly expensive boots to be warm and comfortable? BTW – I have heard from lots of guys that they really think UGGS are really unattractive.
Michelle Henriques wrote on :
I live in Northern Minnesota where Uggs (or my preferred Muklusk– http://www.stegermukluks.com for the hands-down warmest) are the fashion norm. I got a pair of heeled/clog styled Uggs boots called the Lynnea and really like them…except for the $200 pricetag. Honestly, they’re more fashionable than the standard Uggs, but slippery on ice. I love my mukluks more and have multiple pairs. I even wear them in the summer!
shellyleer wrote on :
My sis lives in St. Paul and has mentioned Mukluks forever. I like the tall black ones. In fact, I prefer these over any I’ve seen. Thanks.
Michelle Henriques wrote on :
I love them. I’m seeing a lot of the blanket ones lately.
Kat simoncelli wrote on :
They were named Uggs for a reason; I think the teenagers should be the only ones wearing them.
Patricia Assanowicz wrote on :
my strong beliefs are very simple, i wear what i feel is age approitate for me being 57, on the Ugg’s, myself personally they are not my style of boot, and thats fine, thats what makes us all individuals wear what is comfortable for you, to me they all have a basic style, from your photo you look like you do not need any help in the wardrobe dept. you are a very beautiful woman and your taste shines through, i love to feel young at heart, and my daughter will tell me, “Mom, if you feel good in it, wear it, cause i have a hottie mommie” GEEEZ!!! takning a page from my daughter, wear what makes you feel good, looking at your photo, i am sure you are recieving alot of compliments even ones when people walk by you, i just show my daughter your photo, her words were, “WOW, tell her she is very beautiful and Ugg it up, her response was a basic color you can interchange with different clothes”
Murraytalk30 wrote on :
I’m 52 and love Uggs also. I don’t think there needs to be an age associated with them. I’m wearing them!
shellyleer wrote on :
OK, everybody, I got a pair of tall leather black boots that are 100% comfortable. I almost got talked into a tall pair of yummy gray leather Coach boots, but I knew I’d get more use out of the black ones (comfort factor) and my daughter gave me a pair of tall gray suede boots with a low heel last Christmas. Thanks for all the help and advice. Now I need all of your phone numbers so I can call you from the mall. 😉
Dindy904 wrote on :
You should have a pair of Uggs…all the negative feeling towards Uggs seem so ageist and back to ” leave it to June Cleaver days “. When we are fifty or over..does that mean we can not have friends that are younger as well….this subject and many comments seem absurd to me.
dmurphy431 wrote on :
If you are going to wear them, get tall ones and slim pants tucked in. Otherwise you look frumpy!
Lisa Resnick wrote on :
I live in a cold & snowy climate. I had a pair of UGGS when they were not the in boots. ugg many moons ago.. Yes, very warm. But, now I think they r made in china!?! Anyway, I went w/ a brand La Canadian looks like Uggs , just as warm & more supportive. very nice to walk in. if u do go w/a pair of Uggs; pick one of the newer styles maybe a leather pair. Stay away from the style the kids wear…
deereemp wrote on :
No one is ever too old to try and wear what they like.
shellyleer wrote on :
Well, ladies, I’m headed out to go boot shopping. The snow is falling.
CocoLion wrote on :
I think Ugg boots for FOF is fine. I live in CA, maybe our rules are a little more lenient here. To me, it’s all in the occasion and how you style them. If you wear them to make an errand to the post office or grocery store, I could see Uggs combined with skinny jeans (darker wash), and a shorter coat or parka. (Would look weird with a long coat.) I feel taller boots are more flattering than mid-calf, it has nothing to do with age, it’s that tall boots end at a slimmer part of the leg than mid-calf. If you’re not wearing sequins and a hoodie with Uggs, I feel they are entirely appropriate for FOFs, given it’s a casual occasion. I don’t wear them because I need more support, but I have often thought of having them as a quasi-slipper (I wear Dansko clogs for that now).
alicia ely wrote on :
girl, I live in Los Angeles. We LIVE in Ugg boots. That said, I rarely wear them to work. I work in a rehab for addicts and I don’t want to look like a resident 🙂
shellyleer wrote on :
Very interesting job. I’m working on a way to use upholstery classes as therapy. It works wonders for non addict therapy, I think it has potential for for some sort of therapeutic treatment, or at least just a beneficial activity.
Shirley Farley wrote on :
Shelley, I am by no means a style expert but I can tell you that I am waaay over fifty (76) and I wear UGGS. With gusto and warm feet. My answer to critics is that I am old enough to choose to do it “wrong.”
catsrule9999 wrote on :
I’m not a style expert, but I think older women look great in UGGS (unlike Mary Jane strapped shoes). Any style works, depending on what you’re wearing.
Go for it!
Catherine Brewster wrote on :
well, I have never been an UGG fan either..However, my brother gave me a lovely tall, chocolate pair for Christmas and they are ‘growing’ on me. I can’t believe how warm and comfortable they are!
shellyleer wrote on :
I could love tall dark brown or black ones.
Laura Borud wrote on :
Wear what you love and love what you wear! I’ve read that “mature” women shouldn’t wear ankle boots, I bought two pair this year and love them. I prefer more support than Uggs provide so I went with a Dansko short boot. Too cute! Also got Born Tembi that I wore Christmas Day with a knit floral dress, tights and socks that barely went above the top. Warm, comfy, and looked good!
shellyleer wrote on :
I love Dasko, I’ll check out the Born Tembi’s.
ssamuels818 wrote on :
I love UGGs and am wearing a pair right now. I think they’re fine for mature women… I do however draw the line at skin tight leggings… that look is pushing it for me!
atlellie wrote on :
Age is only a number. I’ve seen women 35 look 65 and women 65 look 45 so enjoy life!
donnarp1 wrote on :
I do own a pair of black Uggs. I wear them when it rains or if I am up in snow country. They do keep your feet very warm. There are a lot of different styles of Uggs on the market, and some are very stylish. They are leather with the sheep skin lining that we love. I do not think you are trying too hard, it all depend on what you wear them with.
FabGirl wrote on :
Sorry, that didn’t work either, but like I said they are the “Jennifer Lopez Platform Wedge Midcalf Boots”. They have taupe with white fur and a wedge and are on sale for $59.97.
shellyleer wrote on :
The first link worked for me. Those are VERY fancy, indeed.
FabGirl wrote on :
I think this link will work.
http://www.kohls.com/kohlsStore/landingpages/jenniferlopez/shoes/PRD~889174/Jennifer Lopez Platform Wedge Midcalf Boots.jsp
ssamuels818 wrote on :
neither link worked for me 🙁
FabGirl wrote on :
These boots are fabulous, stylish, sexy, and comfy too; because of the wedge. You won’t believe how great they look on, esp. with skinny jeans. Honestly, they are truly divine and I think a great substitute for the look you are going for. They are a showstopper, and everyone will want to know where you got them. I hope the link works, but if it dosen’t they are the Jennifer Lopez Platform wedge midcalf boots at Kohls. On sale too! You can’t tell much by looking at the picture but trust me they are amazing on! Oh, and I’m 53 and don’t think they look too young. Because of the height they just look sexy and chic, but they are very comfortable. Hope you try them!
http://www.kohls.com/upgrade/webstore/product_page.jsp?PRODUCT<>prd_id=845524892808706&crosssell=true
catherine anello wrote on :
OMg if you are then I am doomed. Uggs are the best boots out there.I say you can wear them anytime ( except from April to end of Sept ) Oct thru MArch is the fashion “do” 🙂
Arlene Levinson wrote on :
Shelly,
I ask myself this question all the time……am I too old for this, should I be doing that? I say go for it! Who are “those” people tellings us what to do? Remember who you are and never forget it…YOU ARE OVER FIFTY AND YOU ARE FABULOUS! If you feel good in your Uggs and YOU like how you look then knock yourself out and be the best you can be. BE YOU!
shellyleer wrote on :
Ha! I’m not married to having Uggs necessarily, just some big warm boots. However, with this warm winter we’re having, I may not need them!
Dindy904 wrote on :
I totally agree with you..BRAVO !
Dindy904 wrote on :
My reply is concerning the comment made by alev18 ….
Deborah Martin wrote on :
I wear them around the house and on short errands, just because they feel good and I love that they keep my “tootsies” so warm. I don’t wear them “out” to dinner, events, etc….but only because I like a more sophisticated look at those times.
SunshineNana wrote on :
I don’t think shoes or clothes should be aged. If you like a certain boot, and it fits well with your wardrobe choices, and it’s comfortable, then go fo it! My kids tell me often a certain pump is for old ladies, but I actually feel feisty when I wear it. Go figure. Trust your own instincts.
Cheryl Wilson wrote on :
The tall UGGS are really great for FOF but, IMO, the shorter ones scream you try too hard. Remembering that “less is more” and not throwing everything in your closet on too is the key. UGGS are for fun wearing, not for office wear or nights at post restaurants or nightspots. I wear Birkenstocks for sheer comfort and, frankly, being “on” for style all the time can really be boring and quite a chore. Look to FOF women in the public eye. They dress their age and still look wonderful. One fun accessory (UGGS) can go with classic style any day of the week. We FOF types live in a great time and we no longer have to worry about being a slave to fashion. Own what you love and wear it! It’s the 21st century!
hisybil wrote on :
I can definately understand why you would be attracted to UGGS, they are so warm and comfy and like you, I like how they look too! To stay with a more mature look, steer clear of the classic short and mid-calf styles, the taller styles will look more sophisticated and age appropriate. The classic in knee length or the Bailey would look great!
Simplychic wrote on :
It’s okay to like what you life. You have to “own” it and be comfy or it will show on your face and in your walk. That being said, I like to balance the flat foot look of Uggs by wearing the taller ones like the Adironback tall, the Becloud or the plainer Greenfield. If you want a short boot, the Rommy and Caspia are both balanced by another element (fur and ties) to make the look more mature, but updated. Have fun!
shellyleer wrote on :
I can make just about anything for my home, but putting a modern, flattering look together for my “mature” self eludes me. Thanks so much.
Simplychic wrote on :
You’re welcome. It sounds like you have a gift for making things for your home – lucky you. I am buying my first sewing machine in the not too distant future, maybe you can lend some tips on making pillows?
shellyleer wrote on :
I just finished the most fabulous big boxed and corded velvet reading cushion for the bed in my guest bedroom. I’m doing a makeover of that room for the weekly column I write in my local newspaper. I thought this project was kind of lame until I finished it and propped it up with some small rectangular purple velvet pillows and a retro black and white plaid. Wild and fun for the guest bedroom. (Really, it’s my daughter’s room, but she lives in San Diego, so it’s her loss!)
Simplychic wrote on :
Wow – your project sounds very cool. Can you share pics? Part of my fashion philosophy is to treat yourself as if you were a work of art. The same principles that you use for decorating apply to your wardrobe as well, such as balance, proportion, scale and color. You are your own canvas!
shellyleer wrote on :
I’d post a pic, but it belongs to IndyStar. I could sneak you a peek. Where should I send it?
Simplychic wrote on :
Thanks! I always appreciate creative inspiration. mef61@hotmail.com.
Susan Hersh wrote on :
I have never been able to understand what the appeal is in wearing UGG boots. Both of my nieces have owned UGG during high school and college days and now neither one of them would touch them.
They have added full-grain leather boot styles to their staple sheepskin styles but at $220- $350 sug. retail there is better and more stylish boots that will work with skirts, trousers, slim trousers and jeans. This is a boot year with many options, and now the majority is on sale.
Check out http://www.zappos.com/stuart-weitzman-boots~5?s=recentSales/desc/ and if Stuart Weitzman does not appeal to you then type in boots for other designer brands. Zappos has thousands to choose from.
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Susan
shellyleer wrote on :
I’m not locked into wearing UGGs, I just like a warm, comfy boot to slip on before heading out into the cold. Plus, my studio tends to be a little on the drafty side.
Susan Hersh wrote on :
OK understand that you like UGG as a “snow” boot (outside) or inside use to keep your feet warm. If this works for you wear in health & comfort.
shellyleer wrote on :
I could live with a pair of Stuart Weitzman’s.
DSW often has them for a reasonable price.
mzloveyd1 wrote on :
well im not a ugg fan but i do like the Romy and sheepskin cuff boot.. they are fun and practical. YOu look amazing and i think you could get away with all of them.. they are great for comfort and warmth, and i really do not think it matters which style you choose…….