Do You Enjoy Regular Sex?



“Been there, done that,” you’re saying to yourself, about the last question. OK, so you’re not a sexual dynamo.

Not a problem. Bet you didn’t know, however, that sex ranks right up there when it comes to maintaining your general health. “Women who have regular sex have less depression, cancer, high blood pressure, heart disease. And those with poorer health have less sex. The two clearly are intertwined,” asserts Dr. Alyssa Dweck, a New York doctor who has dropped the obstetrical part of her obstetrics-gynecology practice to concentrate on the feminine sexual health of her aging patients. (more…)

Win A Lovely LILY 2 & Candle From LELO!

LELO, the world leader in intimate lifestyle products, recognizes the achievements of women every day. But today, in honor of International Women’s Day, it wants to give one lucky lady two special gifts.

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Do You Have A Difficult Time Getting “In The Mood”?

Remember when you were so physically attracted to someone, all you had to do was think about him, and you’d want to jump into bed? Now, even if you love your husband or partner with all your heart, it’s not quite so easy getting “in the mood,” is it?

A recent FabOverFifty poll of 300 women, 45+,
revealed that a whopping 54 percent of you have a difficult time–sometimes or often–getting aroused or in the mood before intercourse, and 78 percent believe that your sexual experiences would definitely improve
if you were “more aroused” before sex.


[POLL] What Turns You On?

It’s always enlightening to learn what other women in our generation are thinking and doing. Every Thursday, FabOverFifty asks members of our community a series of simple questions about pretty complex issues (and some not-so-complex issues), then we report the results back to you!


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9 Gifts To Spice Up Your Sex Life

introThis holiday season, get him (and yourself) gifts that will make your sex life hot, hot, HOT! Check out these nine gifts from LELO, the world leader in intimate lifestyle products. It’s okay to be a little adventurous this year!

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Win The LELO TIANI 24k (A Vibrator With A Golden Touch)

We were ecstatic when our friends at LELO revealed the TIANI 24k last month — the next generation of its popular couples’ massager.

The world leader in intimate lifestyle products, LELO added some shimmer to this massager, which features a 24-karat gold ring with a unique engraved serial code.

This couples’ massager stimulates you
and your partner, using dual arms. One arm is inserted for G-spot stimulation, while the second remains outside the vagina for clitoral stimulation. There is a motor in each arm, which your partner will feel during intercourse: “Both partners receive equal stimulation, and all the sensations of sex are elevated,” says a LELO spokesperson. The TIANI 24k also is quite flexible, so it can bend to adjust to all body sizes.

The vibrations can either be controlled right on the TIANI 24k or via remote control, featuring LELO’s SenseMotion technology. (more…)

Evolve Your Sex Life After 50 With The Tiani 24k

Your sex life is about to get a little more luxe in the new year!

Sex devices are more sophisticated than ever. Consider the new TIANI 24k, a couples’ massager with a heart of gold! LELO, the world leader in intimate lifestyle products, has evolved the TIANI series to its fourth generation, not only by giving it more power and features, but by jazzing it up with a 24-karat gold ring that features a unique serial code, just for you and your partner.

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Demystifying Kegel Exercises

Why Kegels Are Good Things, And How You Can Do Them Properly

It’s hard not to notice when the skin on our face starts sagging and your breasts start dropping. But other changes are taking place all over our bodies as we age, some which might be less noticeable. Our vaginal tissue thins and weakens, for example, a result of natural events such as childbirth and menopause. And the pelvic floor muscles that control our bladder (and much more, as you’ll shortly find out) also get out of shape. That’s why we may accidentally leak when we laugh, sneeze, or make a sudden movement.

Besides working with your bladder, pelvic muscles are responsible for the contractions you feel during orgasm. With strengthened, in-shape pelvic muscles, it’s easier to become aroused and reach orgasm during sex.

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6 Reasons You MUST Masturbate

Fifty-nine percent of women in a recent FabOverFifty poll don’t think they masturbate or have sex frequently enough. Time to move that percentage way down. Here are six incentives to make masturbation an essential part of your life.

To reconnect with your partner: Contrary to what you may have heard, you don’t need to masturbate alone. Masturbation can accelerate a sexual experience with your partner, and he or she will probably love the idea, too!

[ANONYMOUS POLL] Are You In Control Of Your Sexual Health?

“Having a sex life is important, whether you’re married or not,” says Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, director of the Medical Center for Female Sexuality in Purchase, NY. “It’s important for your sense of self, whether you’re having sex with someone else or with yourself.”