Start Playing With Toys This Christmas

Have you heard the story of the woman in Cincinnati who came home from a party with a shopping bag filled with goodies, which she shared with her husband that night. When he woke the next morning, he turned to her and said: “That was better than any second honeymoon I could have planned.” She wholeheartedly agreed.

The goodies were adult toys the woman bought at a Pure Romance in-home party, for women only! If you’ve used sex toys, you’ll understand how the couple felt. If you’ve never used them, or even thought about using them, I urge you to consider giving one a try, for your pleasure and for your sexual health.  I never played with adult toys until I was in my fifties, but once I understood their significance, and found the right ones, they changed my life.  You don’t need a partner either.

Below are three best-selling Pure Romance toys and three of its popular beauty products. Each of them will make you feel sensational. What’s more, they’re well made and exceptionally priced. Be sure to read the testimonials from real customers after each product description.


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P.S. And, learn about Pure Romance in-home parties here. Once you and your pals attend one, you’ll wonder what took you so long.



Prevent those irritating and unsightly little red bumps from popping up on your bikini area, underarms, legs and anywhere else you shave with Coochy Love Story, a delightful conditioning shave cream.  What’s more, the rich formula will help your skin look sexy, smell delicious and feel super soft. Many women use it as a hair conditioner, too.

“The best shaving cream I have ever used. Been using it for many years.” Talina S.



Featuring 10 speeds of independently controlled clitoral and shaft vibration, plus a G-spot-pleasing tip, Main Attraction is a food-grade silicone, dual-action vibrator. It’s a fact that a higher percentage of women achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation because the clitoris has so many nerves, but it’s very hard for a man to help you do that and and penetrate at the same time.  This toy gives you just what you desire.

“This magnificent wonder has paid for itself so much that I owe IT money!!! I’m just saying!!! Get it ladies!! You. Will. Not. Be. Sorry!”   L.A.

“No toy has ever taken me to climax on its own, but this thing accomplished the impossible…in 5 minutes flat. And the response was ultra strong. This may be the perfect toy, really.”  Storybook Fragments



After a relaxing warm bath or shower, caress your body with a mist that’s infused with sweet almond oil.  A few spritzes of Body Dew Love Story and your skin will get back the softness that the cold winter wants to take away!

“10 star really in rating. This is my favorite way to moisturize! Right after a shower spritz yourself with this liquid gold. I can promise you your skin will thank you! Just remember a little goes a long way!”  Lindsay C.



A silicone clitoral vibrator with six rhythmic speeds and pulsating patterns, Kaia cups perfectly in your hand and can be used while your partner is penetrating. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you if you don’t achieve orgasm through penetration alone. When you introduce Kaia into your relationship, with its uniquely shaped wings, your pleasure and confidence will soar.

“Love love love it! From the material to the fact that it’s water-resistant and the vibration changes – This is awesome!” Ellen H.

“Life Changing. Best clitoris stimulator. Makes your whole body tremble and you finish every single time. Multiple times. Kaia is definitely a life changer!!” JL



A roll-on sex attractant that enhances your natural allure by releasing your unique scent, Basic Instinct can be used alone or layered with your favorite scent.

“I love the scent of this. It makes me smile when I put it on so I always feel good when I wear it. Which is everyday. It goes with my perfume so it doesn’t clash. And even my crabby boss seems nicer when he is around me. That alone is worth it.” Debby F.



Offering 30 vibrations and pulsing patterns, Opening Act is a silicone clitorial vibrator that also can dance down your every curve to provide a thrilling full-body massage. How’s that for complete satisfaction!

“I had this one before, I absolutely love it. It changed the way I climax and it has made sex so much more enjoyable!! Unfortunately my first one died after three years, just outside the warranty… but I can’t live without it. Here’s to four more years!”  Shelby S.

I highly recommend! Gets the job done quickly alone or with my husband. Charges fast and seems to be quiet, although I’m not 😉. Very happy with my purchase.” Jackie E.


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You’re Never Too Old to Play With (These) Toys!

Patty Brisben was home on maternity leave from her job assisting four pediatricians when a group of women guests on The Phil Donahue Show got her undivided attention. “These ladies were no longer living paycheck to paycheck, and their jobs gave them the chance to have quality time with their families, as well as spark up their relationships with their significant  others,” Patty said. “What’s more, they were going into other women’s homes and changing their lives.”

                       Patty Brisben

If this sounds too good to be true, it sounded “kind of crazy,” to Patty. But she thought, “I can do this. I can really do this,” she recalled.  What Patty thought she could do was organize in-home parties to sell intimacy products, just like the ladies on Phil’s show. That was 35 years ago, when Patty was 28. Today, she’s at the helm of Pure Romance, a $220M company, with 170 employees, that sells adult toys and beauty products at women-only, in-home parties.  The adult toy category is a whopping $1.58 billion in the United States, and Patty has garnered a significant piece of it. And, just like the women who inspired her in 1983, Patty changes the lives of women all over the globe, every single day!

Whether you’ve never used  sex toys, ever thought about using them, or call on them often and eagerly, Patty’s story is pretty exciting (excuse the pun!) It might even convince you to give them a try. Take it from me. I never used a sex toy until I was in my fifties, but once I understood their significance, and found the right ones, they changed my life, too.  And, you don’t need a partner. More on that later!

Now, meet Patty and learn about her cool company.   


What did you do after watching the segment on Phil Donahue?

“I called a friend, who told me she’d recently been to a neighbor’s sex toy party, where the house was packed and women stood in line to place orders. And this was in conservative Cincinnati! My friend didn’t tell me what she’d bought at the party, but she joked that when she and her husband woke up the next morning, he turned to her and said: ‘That was better than any second honeymoon I could have planned.’

“OMG. I want be involved, I thought, so I called an 800 number and talked to a consultant from a company called Fun Parties, who told me her life had changed, too, just like the women I saw on TV.  I worked for them for 10 years, but Fun Parties started floundering when the owner became gravely ill. I didn’t want the business to go away. I was 38, divorced and had four children, so I decided I’d start my own company.

“I set up a meeting with a sex toy supplier I knew in Cleveland, where I sat in a boardroom with 10 men who told me there’s an incredible niche of women who want sex toys. I agreed, but my experience taught me that women like to buy them in their own homes, or in a friend’s home.  They want to be in a safe environment, not in a store. That meeting marked the conception of my own company, Pure Romance. Five really good friends stepped up to the plate and each did an at-home party for me, even though they thought I was certifiably crazy.


Please tell us about the mission of Pure Romance and how you accomplish it through your parties.

“Women need permission to explore and bring new things into their bedrooms.  They need to understand that using sex toys doesn’t make them dirty or bad girls. Those days are over.  And, they want education about their bodies and how to take their relationships to the next level. Women traditionally put themselves on the back burner, and our parties help them focus on their own needs and sexual health.

Patty Brisben launching a new perfume scent at a Pure Romance training event

“I started building Pure Romance by having doctors train our consultants about the info women need regarding their libido and desire. As time went out, I discovered how little information and research were available about women’s sexual health, and that most healthcare providers get very little training when it comes to the subject. Yet, about half of all women experience sexual difficulties at some point in their lives and need resources to help. Something had to change, I realized, which led me to create The Patty Brisben Foundation for Women’s Sexual Health in 2006. We’ve raised over $4 million to support research projects and educational initiatives on sexual dysfunction and disorders to ensure women have the information, and get the treatment plans they need, to live healthy, fulfilled lives.

“Today, Pure Romance works with awesome doctors across a spectrum of specialties, including urogynecologists, sex therapists, OBGYNs and pelvic floor therapists, to train and support our consultants. Our consultants learn about achieving intimacy after cancer treatment, and can recommend doctors to see if a woman at a party has questions about menopause.”

Giveaway: Win A Transformational New Device For Intimate Wellness Valued at $495!

FabOverFifty partnered with vFit to help educate you about menopausal issues.

I’m not embarrassed to admit what’s happened to my body since menopause. While hot flashes didn’t torment me, incontinence and dehydrated vaginal tissue took the pleasure out of everything from shopping to sex. Now I know that millions of women share my difficulties, and there are ways to deal with them, from estrogen therapies to pelvic floor exercises, aka kegels. If you’re like I am, however, you don’t have the patience to do countless kegels every single day. And, not every woman is a fan of estrogen.

Enter a new device, called vFit, the first noninvasive, hormone-free solution that uses a combination of LED red light, gentle heat and sonic technology to promote intimate wellness. I’ve been using vFit three to four times a week for over a month, it takes no effort, is comfortable to handle, and the experience is enjoyable!

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While vFit is pleasant to use, it does much more than what you might think from first glance. It’s a fabulous tool to improve intimate wellness. And, it has. I can feel my pelvic muscles working harder to combat my sudden urges to pee, so I no longer have to sprint to the bathroom in seconds.  My vaginal tissue definitely is more lubricated.

How vFit Works Its Magic

Just as lasers are successfully used to treat issues on our facial skin, vFit uses the same principle for our pelvic floor to improve the quality of life for millions of women who suffer from common changes to our intimate wellness.  The six UV-free red lights (LEDs) in vFit, powered to glow brightly, are completely safe and provide optimal results. While they are based on the same technology invented by NASA in the 1960s, and used in many aesthetic products today, vFit is the first to use red lights (LEDs) to help improve intimate wellness.

vFit emits a gentle heat intended to warm the vaginal tissue to encourage blood flow, as well as amplify the effectiveness of the LEDs. I can report that the the heat is very pleasant and comfortable, but since every woman’s body is different, you should stop the session if you feel that it’s too warm. I was comfortable starting with 10-minute sessions, but you might want to begin with six-minute sessions and work your way up to 10 minutes

vFit offers six sonic vibration modes with different vibration patterns. I usually rotate through the series of patterns while I’m using vFit until I find the one I like best. Some days I prefer the pulsating vibration; other days I like a more steady vibration. The vibration puts mechanical stress on the tissue and muscles. Makes complete sense!

In a third-party study, women who used vFit reported the following results after 60 days: 95% reported improved intimate wellness;  89% experienced increased confidence with intercourse; 89% felt increased sensation; 100% reported feeling more emotionally connected to their partner. Based on my experience, I’m with them.

We invite you to fill out the form below for a chance to win one of two VFit units. You’ll also receive an ultra-concentrated, water-based gel–created to be used specifically with the device–that’s infused with moisturizing hyaluronic acid and aloe to help enhance your vFit performance and comfort.  Giveaway ends Thursday, November 15th.

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A Transformational New Device For Intimate Wellness

FabOverFifty partnered with vFit to help educate you about menopausal issues.

                                     Bladder Weak,

                                     Leak, Leak, Leak!


                                     Vagina Dry,

                                     Sigh, Sigh, Sigh!


                                                                      –Geri Brin

I’m not sheepish to admit what’s happened to my body since menopause. While hot flashes didn’t torment me, incontinence and dehydrated vaginal tissue took the joy out of everything from shopping to sex. But since launching in 2010, and interviewing urologists to gynecologists, I’ve discovered that millions of women share my problems. I’ve also learned about ways to deal with them, from estrogen therapies to pelvic floor exercises, aka kegels. If you’re like me, however, you don’t have the patience to do countless kegels every single day. And, not every woman is a fan of estrogen.

Now a new device, called vFit, is the first noninvasive, hormone-free solution that uses a combination of LED red light, gentle heat and sonic technology to promote intimate wellness. You can use it in the privacy and comfort of your bedroom, it takes no effort, and it’s a pleasant experience!

Dr. Sarah de la Torre

“Vaginal dryness is caused by lack of blood flow to the area from low estrogen, and it’s prevalent in women in their late 40s and 50s. That’s when they start to complain to me about lack of lubrication with intercourse, even if their libidos are still great,” said Dr. Sarah de la Torre, a board certified obstetrician-gynecologist with a busy practice in Seattle, WA. “The vaginal tissue also becomes thinner, sometimes leading to pain during sex. And stress incontinence, which often begins after childbirth, worsens during the next decade. I talk to women all day long about these health and pelvic floor issues, and I run down their options, including kegels, physical therapy, or surgery,” Dr. de la Torre explained. “I was excited to learn that a women’s wellness product was being developed that would use low-level light therapy on vaginal tissue to improve intimate wellness.”

How vFit Works Its Magic

Colette Courtion

vFit is the brainchild of high-tech beauty executive and mother Colette Courtion, who designed it in partnership with leading gynecologists and experts in the field of laser and light science. Following the birth of her son, Colette realized there were few options available to help women feel like themselves again after going through life’s milestones. “I’ve spent most of my career working in medical aesthetics, and I thought ‘if we’re using lasers on our facial skin, why aren’t we using the same scientific principles for our pelvic floor.’ It was my ‘aha’ moment,” said 46-year-old Colette. Using personal insights from over 2,300 women about their intimate health experiences, and what they’d like to see in an at-home product, vFit was born. “We’re committed to improving the quality of life for the millions of women who suffer from common changes to their intimate wellness,” Colette added.


The six UV-free red lights (LEDs) in vFit, powered to glow brightly, are completely safe and provide optimal results. While they are based on the same technology invented by NASA in the 1960s, and used in many aesthetic products today, vFit is the first to use red lights (LEDs) to help improve intimate wellness.


vFit emits a gentle heat intended to warm the vaginal tissue to encourage blood flow, as well as amplify the effectiveness of the LEDs. Most women report the heat is very pleasant and comfortable, but since every woman’s body is different, you should stop the session if you feel it’s too warm.

As we age our tissue loses plumpness and elasticity, and gets more and more thin, so you may be more sensitive to heat than someone whose tissue is not as thin,” noted Dr. de la Torre. vFit recommends that you start with a six-minute session and work your way up to 10 minutes when your body becomes comfortable with the gentle heat.


vFit offers six sonic vibration modes with different vibration patterns. You can rotate through the series of patterns while you’re using vFit to decide which you like best. The last mode that you used for over one minute will be stored, and your next session with vFit will start at that mode.

Vibration, often used in sports medicine, puts mechanical stress on the tissue and muscles. “It’s the combination of that, plus the heat and the light, that make the magic happen,” said Dr. de la Torre. vFit should be used from four to six weeks, at least every other day, after which time it can be used about once a week to maintain results.

The Impressive vFit Results

In a third-party study, women who used vFit reported the following results after 60 days:

     95% reported improved intimate wellness

     89% experienced increased confidence with intercourse

     89% felt increased sensation

     100% reported feeling more emotionally connected to their partner

An ultra-concentrated, water-based gel–created to be used specifically with the device–is infused with moisturizing hyaluronic acid and aloe to help enhance your vFit performance and comfort.

vFit costs $495. Yes, the brand acknowledges that it’s an investment, but it’s an “investment in your own wellness, and it’s crucial to prioritize ourselves and our health as women,” Dr. de la Torre emphasized.  “If you look at the cost of other items that women are buying, it far exceeds the cost of vFit,” she added. “ If you’re buying incontinence pads, for example, you’re probably spending about $1,000 a year. If you’re using hormone creams every month, you’re spending $80 a month on co-pay, which is average.  But these are masking the problems, not really solving them. So again, this is an important investment for your mental well-being and overall health and wellness.”

This offer is valid until Wednesday, October 31. Enter code FAB at checkout.  Both the vFit and the Photonic Gel must be in your cart before you enter the code.

Why One Doctor Says “Never Again” To Warming Lubricants

This post is sponsored by Pulse, the most exquisite lubes on the market

What one thing could you invite into the bedroom to improve your sex life? Okay, you don’t have to share every fantasy, but hopefully something special did cross your mind: a great lubricant.

We chatted with Lauren Streicher, MD, a Clinical Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology and the Medical Director of Northwestern Medicine Center for Sexual Medicine and Menopause for her expert advice about how to find a safe, effective lube among the many, many choices. While she’s quick to recommend lubes to her patients if they’re struggling with dryness or simply want to improve the quality of their sex lives, she acknowledges that there’s a lot of misinformation out there, especially when it comes to warming lubes and the best body-friendly ingredients. Let’s put some lube myths to bed before you yourself slide into the sheets.

First of all, how do you know if you need to use lube?

If the phrase “sandpaper sex” makes you squirm, it should. Vaginal dryness can lead to irritation and painful intercourse, and it can be a challenge to resolve without a little extra help. According to Dr. Streicher, there are several reasons someone might need supplementary lubrication; hormonal changes, certain medical conditions, and medications can all increase dryness and affect the body’s ability to produce enough natural lubrication. On the other hand, even people who don’t struggle with dryness can enjoy using lube to enhance their sexual activities—it can be used during foreplay, with toys, or with a partner during intercourse. Essentially, if your goal is to increase comfort, ease, and pleasure, a good lube can help in more ways than one.

Lube is slippery, for one thing, and more slip means more stimulation—the fun kind of friction. With that comes more warmth and increased blood flow, which you definitely want; it helps relax tissues, heighten arousal, and improve sensation during sex.

What’s all this about warming lubes?

At first blush, the water-based warming lubes on the market do sound like a pretty enticing innovation. After all, if warmth is the gateway to more enjoyable sex, it makes sense that you’d want a warming lube. They do boast right on the label that they increase sensation and maximize pleasure, and the millions of marketing dollars behind those claims have made them hard to ignore. 

Unfortunately, the advertisements can be misleading. Dr. Streicher cautions that there’s a real difference between a warming lube, and a lube that is warm. Warming lubes are formulated with the assumption that sensation is synonymous with heat (think of certain medicated ointments for sore muscles and you’ll start to see where we’re going with this). During her research about effective lubrication ingredients, Dr. Streicher learned that these lubes actually get their warming qualities from additives that create an intensely stimulating sensation more like a chemical burn than pleasant physical warmth. A number of these additives include mentholated ingredients, compounds derived from red peppers, and chemicals that can cause major tissue dehydration. People looking to spice things up with one of these warming lubricants can get more than they bargained for; Dr. Streicher says some patients report stinging, irritation, and redness after using warming lube—a whole host of discomforts that can ruin the mood.

It’s not just the warming additives that can be irritating. Water-based lubes (as opposed to silicone-based) can also include chemical preservatives like glycerin and propylene glycol. Although common in many skincare and beauty products, these ingredients may be sensitizing to some people and can contribute to dry, dehydrated tissues and seriously uncomfortable sex.

If you can’t stand the heat…find a better lubricant:

Those millions of marketing dollars we mentioned? The ones telling you that their warming lube can make all of your wildest dreams come true? There’s nothing in the budget for educating customers about what’s really in those formulas. In our conversation, Dr. Streicher stressed repeatedly how important it is for people to get savvy about these ingredients, the harm they can do and how they can affect your vagina. As she points out, your comfort is worth the effort it takes to read the label before you use something on your most sensitive body parts.

Also, just because you now know the truth about warming lubes doesn’t mean you have to forgo that soothing warmth—simply make sure you warm your lube (silicone or water-based) manually. Dr. Streicher keeps a Pulse Warming Dispenser in her office to show patients how easy and hygienic it is to use. They’re happy to have an alternative that won’t cause irritation or
interrupt the action one bit, since it can sit right within reach on the bedside table.

How to decide which lube is right for you:

If you’re ready to toss your old lube after scrutinizing the ingredients, Dr. Streicher recommends choosing your next one based on how you plan to use it. Is your rendezvous going to be with a penis, or a toy? In the shower? With a condom? Your sexual activity may determine which kind of lube will work best for you (but hey, it never hurts to experiment!).

Silicone for sex with a penis:

Silicone lubes, like Pulse’s Aloe-ahh, are ideal when you want something supremely slippery, long-lasting, and compatible with condoms. Because they don’t include those sensitizing additives or harmful chemicals and don’t absorb into the tissues, they’re far less likely to cause an unpleasant reaction.

Water-based for condoms and toys:

Water-based lubes are easy to find and compatible with both condoms and toys (skip silicone lubes with silicone toys because they can compromise the material–another sex science tip to keep in your nightstand). Prioritize finding a pH-balanced water-based lube and avoid ingredients like propylene glycol and glycerine, which can cause dehydration.

Why you need to be in-the-know about natural ingredients:

If you’re wondering whether your lube needs to be chock-full of natural and organic ingredients, Dr. Streicher encourages researching what that really means. Just because an ingredient is natural and organic doesn’t mean it belongs in your vagina–think of those red pepper extracts, for instance! Natural fragrances and essential oils can also irritate sensitive tissues, even though they’re derived from plants and as natural as they come. On the other hand, there’s nothing organic about silicone, and it makes for a truly terrific lubricant. Whether your lube is synthetic or natural or botanical or made in a factory, as long as you prioritize ingredients that are safe, gentle, and effective, your vagina will thank you.

Why Pulse made the gynecologist-approved list:

Dr. Streicher keeps a short list of lubricants to share with patients who are struggling with dryness or just curious about adding lube to their bedroom routine, and she confirms that our Pulse Pods are a hit. While soothing water-based lubes can be hard to find, Dr. Streicher saved particular praise for our long-lasting H2Oh! formula, thanks to the pure chia extract that makes it super hydrating and non-sticky. For those who aren’t sure what to choose, either of Pulse’s lubes, Aloe-ahh or H2Oh! are a great choice whether you’re a “lube newbie” or not.

You shouldn’t be turned off by lube just because that bottle of Warming Jelly you bought last month now sounds too hot to handle. If something works–if it’s slippery, long-lasting, and doesn’t irritate you during or after sex, by all means, use what you enjoy with your partner or a toy. But if you’re looking for a superior sexual experience and want to prioritize a really good, safe, effective lube, take all of this information with you on your next shopping trip, because your pleasure is absolutely worth it. And remember: warm your lube, don’t let your lube “warm” you.

Lauren Streicher, MD, is the Medical Director of Northwestern Medicine Center for Sexual Medicine and Menopause.

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Surprising Fact #2: 57 percent of us don’t know the ingredients in our lubes.

Unfortunate Fact #3: The ingredients in the best-selling lubes in the United States can harm our delicate vaginal tissue (which becomes even more delicate as we age!)  Many lubes actually dehydrate our already dry tissues, when we erroneously think they’re hydrating the tissues. Not to mention, they’re sticky, icky, gummy and gooey!

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Don’t be Coy. Grab a Toy!

This post is sponsored by Adam & Eve

Ladies, if you’ve never used a sex toy, it’s unequivocally not too late to start.  This is not the 1970s or 80s, and you don’t even need a partner to give you pleasure. What’s more, you can choose a toy that will do just what you want, exactly where you want it. You’re in control, no questions asked.  Any women who uses toys, with or without a teammate, will attest to what I’m saying.

And how easy it is to order your toys right on the internet, in the privacy of your own home! So, even if you’re timid about making the move, only you know you’re making it. Adam & Eve, appropriately named after the lovers in the Garden of Eden, is the leading sex toy company in the United States. It has been selling adult toys–and other products including lingerie and lubes–for almost 50 years, and has built a reputation for honesty and reliability.

“Our loyal customers know they can rely on us to treat them fairly, protect their privacy, and stand by our promises,” reads a statement on The company also offers 24/7 customer service.  You can call or email them anytime. Plus, you’ll get a 90-day money back guarantee, so if you’re not satisfied (excuse the pun) with the products you ordered, for any reason, Adam & Eve will take it back.  Again, no questions asked.

                                               oxo Geri

Four of Our FOFavorite Toys

A Magic Wand

“Our first venture has proven to be quite enjoyable for both of us! It has opened the door to new experiences for an older couple. Highly recommended.” — 5-star review

Sensual Touch Massager proves the adage that “good things come in small packages.” It may be petite and lightweight, but this wand is ultra-powerful, capable of delivering 10 body-shaking vibration functions.  And, it’s rechargeable, so wires never get in the way of your ultimate fulfillment. The curvy, mushroom-shaped silicone head provides full coverage and feel silky smooth against your sensitive skin.

Surround Sound

“This is a very versatile toy both for me and my wife. It works well for both of us together or solo. Nice that is has different speed and pulse settings. Very fun toy. Great battery life, easy to charge. Easy to clean. Well made.”–5-star reviewer

Just like the reviewer said, Tryst Multi-Erogenous Massager is a magnificent multi-tasker, performing  as a penis ring, clitoral stimulator, couples vibrator, and more! Its unique arms and triple motor system can arouse any area with seven vibrating, pulsating and escalating functions. Play with it alone or with your partner, for endless exciting experiences.  Tryst is rechargeable and features a smooth silicone surface.

Pretty And Powerful

“If I could give it 10 stars, I would.  I was really hesitant to buy, but I’m really glad that I did. Small, discrete, and gets the job done. I love that it has different functions and that it’s waterproof. Also feel like it’s convenient that it’s rechargeable vs. battery operated!”–5-star reviewer

The Luxe Princess Vibrator is beautiful outside and works like a charm inside. Its diamond-textured silicone surface and seven vibration functions will bring you over-the-top sensations. Rechargeable and, at four inches, just the right size for working its way into tight spots. Quiet and waterproof, too. Comes in a lovely satin storage pouch. Give yourself a gift or get one for your best friend.  

Its Name Says It All

“My wife is very difficult to O, so I was leary about spending so much on one product. But I surprised her with this vibe, and when she relented to try it (she had thought that for her it was a waste of money), I could tell she enjoyed it quickly. Then, for someone who mostly doesn’t get any pleasure from other vibes, she was clutching the sheets within five minutes.” 5-star reviewer 

Strong and mischievously curvy to match your body’s natural curves, the Evolved Wild Orchid Vibrator has one motor in the tip of the smooth silicone shaft to target your G-Spot, and another in the flexible clitoral stimulator. Offering eight vibration functions, including pulsation and escalation, the motors can be used separately or together to create up to 24 unique combinations. Rechargeable and waterproof for wet and wild times.

Adam & Eve is offering the FOF community a generous 50% off 1 item + Free Shipping on your entire order in the US & Canada. (*some exclusions apply). Enter code FAB at checkout.


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The Pulse to Get Your Pulse Racing

My partner and I are canoodling in bed, and we’re both in the mood for more. I call a timeout as I fiddle around in my nightstand drawer for the tube of lubricant.  By the time I unscrew the goop-rimmed cap, squeeze out the cold gel, and slather it on, the mood is gone! I despise that lube, and every other lube I’ve ever bought, but I need it. I absolutely need it.  

Nothing can throw cold water on a romantic interlude like the lubricants on the market. Cold buzz kill!  Definitely not sexy.

Okay, now try to imagine the same bedroom scene, only this time I can slip my arm over to a sleek-looking, seductively lit device sitting on my nightstand, and with a wave of a hand (I don’t even have to look) out comes a deliciously warm lube right into my palm. I rub it on, my pulse speeds up, and I’m more in the mood for love!

Ladies, if the first scenario sounds familiar, and the second sounds alluring, meet the Pulse your pulse has been waiting for: The Pulse Personal Lubricant Warming Dispenser. Simply pop a little Pulse Pod filled with healthy and soothing personal lubricant into the chic and modern device (think Apple-like design meets Nespresso coffee capsules), and it delivers warm, comforting servings of luxurious lube in a touchless, mess-free and hygienic way–on demand, when I want them. Engineering at its most elegant. Just fabulous! (more…)

Increase Your Libido, Starting Today!

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