5 Gifts To Bring Fantasy Back Into The Bedroom





The TANTRA Feather Teaser, in black, blue or purple, is made of down feathers with a polished metal and acrylic handle. “I have a black one, and he always gets excited to see it. I let him use it on me, and it seems like we can do that for hours: me squealing and moaning, and him controlling each tip of the most delicate feathers,” says reviewer Sandy.


Tracing its roots back to Eastern Europe in the 12th century, willy warmers (or more bluntly, penis apparel), has been a great way to keep him warm everywhere. Today, the TUX is a fun gift to ignite fantasy in him. A perfect mix of quirky and sexy, the TUX is a free gift with purchase at LELO.com. It also can be purchased separately.




All in the sexiest shade of red, the Adore Me Pleasure Set includes silk and suede Sutra Chainlink Cuffs, Intima Silk Blindfold, and a MIA 2 waterproof massager. The massager looks no different than your lipstick (from the outside), but can provide a whole new world of pleasure.


Available in three aromas, this Flickering Touch Massage Candle melts into a wonderful massage oil for you and your partner, so you can add some heat for a heightened experience.



“These are honestly the best purchase I’ve ever made. So silky and smooth, they really make your evening pleasurable and luxurious,” says Eva, about BOA Pleasure Ties. These are the ties that definitely bind you two together.

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Do You Have A Difficult Time Getting “In The Mood”?

Remember when you were so physically attracted to someone, all you had to do was think about him, and you’d want to jump into bed? Now, even if you love your husband or partner with all your heart, it’s not quite so easy getting “in the mood,” is it?

A recent FabOverFifty poll of 300 women, 45+,
revealed that a whopping 54 percent of you have a difficult time–sometimes or often–getting aroused or in the mood before intercourse, and 78 percent believe that your sexual experiences would definitely improve
if you were “more aroused” before sex.

So what’s a woman to do? Well, some of you masturbate, others use sex toys, wear sexy lingerie, or suggest a romantic evening with your partners. Others have simply given up on sex entirely, some because it takes too much effort to get yourselves in the mood, or because your husbands can no longer achieve erections or are no longer interested in sex.

The vast majority of you (80 percent), however,
would consider using a device to get you in the mood
before intercourse, according to the FOF survey.
Happily, a smart new sexual health device,
called Fiera Arouser for Her, will do just that.

Fiera is like no other tool to enhance intimacy on the market, and I mean no other. It’s not a vibrator. It’s not a pill or supplement. It’s not a cream or gel. It’s a small, discreet and hands-free accessory that stimulates blood flow in the clitoris and encourages vaginal lubrication, helping get your body ready for a enjoyable sexual experience.product_image1

Fiera is shaped to fit comfortably inside the
labia, atop the clitoris.

Once the power button is pressed, the device softly attaches itself to the clitoris through suction, and then a trio of tiny vibrating stimulators gently surround the clitoris to provide extra stimulation and send blood into the area. Buttons on the topside of Fiera control the pattern and intensity of the stimulation vibes, ranging from soft and slow to harder and speedier (but not so hard or fast to cause any discomfort.) A soft, removable cover, called a SofSense ring, is snapped into place before each use, and washed in warm, soapy water between uses.


It’s pretty easy to switch speeds and patterns, once you get the hang of it, and little lights tell you when Fiera is attaching, properly suctioned, or needs to be recharged. The settings, combined with the gentle suction, help you find the ideal combination to enhance arousal and desire. The clever little thing isn’t meant to give you an out-and-out orgasm, but to get you in the mood-physically and mentally-to have one, whether or not you have a partner.

click_hereto get your mind and body in the mood. Enter code 5AFOF12
to receive $50 OFF your Fiera, valid through 2/29/16.

[POLL] What Turns You On?

It’s always enlightening to learn what other women in our generation are thinking and doing. Every Thursday, FabOverFifty asks members of our community a series of simple questions about pretty complex issues (and some not-so-complex issues), then we report the results back to you!


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9 Gifts To Spice Up Your Sex Life

introThis holiday season, get him (and yourself) gifts that will make your sex life hot, hot, HOT! Check out these nine gifts from LELO, the world leader in intimate lifestyle products. It’s okay to be a little adventurous this year!

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This new dual-armed couples massager includes a 24-karat gold ring and will deliver stimulation to both you and him during sex.


Stimulate your clitoris with this small but powerful egg-shaped device during solo play, or nestle it in between you and your partner while you’re making love. With 8 stimulation patterns, it will enhance any sexual experience.

Flickering Touch Massage Candle

This candle will melt into wonderful massage oil for you and your partner, and is available in three aromas.

Dare Me Set

Curious about getting kinky? This luxurious set includes a suede whip, silk cuffs and Ben Wa balls.


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Win The LELO TIANI 24k (A Vibrator With A Golden Touch)

We were ecstatic when our friends at LELO revealed the TIANI 24k last month — the next generation of its popular couples’ massager.

The world leader in intimate lifestyle products, LELO added some shimmer to this massager, which features a 24-karat gold ring with a unique engraved serial code.

This couples’ massager stimulates you
and your partner, using dual arms. One arm is inserted for G-spot stimulation, while the second remains outside the vagina for clitoral stimulation. There is a motor in each arm, which your partner will feel during intercourse: “Both partners receive equal stimulation, and all the sensations of sex are elevated,” says a LELO spokesperson. The TIANI 24k also is quite flexible, so it can bend to adjust to all body sizes.

The vibrations can either be controlled right on the TIANI 24k or via remote control, featuring LELO’s SenseMotion technology. (more…)

Evolve Your Sex Life After 50 With The Tiani 24k

Your sex life is about to get a little more luxe in the new year!

Sex devices are more sophisticated than ever. Consider the new TIANI 24k, a couples’ massager with a heart of gold! LELO, the world leader in intimate lifestyle products, has evolved the TIANI series to its fourth generation, not only by giving it more power and features, but by jazzing it up with a 24-karat gold ring that features a unique serial code, just for you and your partner.

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What We Learned About Your Sex Life

[ANONYMOUS POLL] The Ultimate Sex Survey For FabOverFifty Women

It’s always enlightening to learn what other women in our generation are thinking and doing. Every Thursday, FabOverFifty asks members of our community a series of simple questions about pretty complex issues (and some not so complex issues), then we report the results back to you!

Since sexual health often is in the news today, we’d like to explore the subject with you. We’ll report the results in a few weeks.


[GIVEAWAY] A Sleek & Sexy Way To Longer, Stronger Orgasms

We recently introduced you to a pretty cool way to take control of your Kegel exercises– the LUNA Smart Bead from LELO. Not only does this device help your bladder retrain your pelvic floor muscles, it also gets your muscles in shape so it’s easier to become aroused and reach orgasm during sex.


“Your intimate muscles are like any other muscles: their power andefficiency improve with a regular work out,” says Ian Kerner, Ph. D, licensed psychotherapist and sexuality counselor.

Demystifying Kegel Exercises

Why Kegels Are Good Things, And How You Can Do Them Properly

It’s hard not to notice when the skin on our face starts sagging and your breasts start dropping. But other changes are taking place all over our bodies as we age, some which might be less noticeable. Our vaginal tissue thins and weakens, for example, a result of natural events such as childbirth and menopause. And the pelvic floor muscles that control our bladder (and much more, as you’ll shortly find out) also get out of shape. That’s why we may accidentally leak when we laugh, sneeze, or make a sudden movement.

Besides working with your bladder, pelvic muscles are responsible for the contractions you feel during orgasm. With strengthened, in-shape pelvic muscles, it’s easier to become aroused and reach orgasm during sex.

Get your pelvic muscles in-shape