Sample The Best Lube In The Land!

This post is sponsored by Pulse

Unsurprising Fact #1:  78 percent of us use lubes before having sex, according to an exclusive FabOverFifty survey of 75 women.

Surprising Fact #2: 57 percent of us don’t know the ingredients in our lubes.

Unfortunate Fact #3: The ingredients in the best-selling lubes in the United States can harm our delicate vaginal tissue (which becomes even more delicate as we age!)  Many lubes actually dehydrate our already dry tissues, when we erroneously think they’re hydrating the tissues. Not to mention, they’re sticky, icky, gummy and gooey!

Happy Fact #4: 500 lucky FOFs* will have the chance to try a new lube from Pulse.  It’s absolutely the silkiest, smoothest, most sensual and spa-like lube in the land. And, it’s completely safe and hypoallergenic.

One lucky FOF also will win the sleek-looking, seductively lit Pulse Personal Lubricant Warming Dispenser, valued at $199, which delivers a deliciously warm lube right into the palm of your hand. 

The Pulse Promise

*Once 500 FOFs request a gratis sample of the luxurious Pulse lube, there will be a $1 charge to receive a sample.  

Since we have reached 500, 

to try Pulse’s exquisite lubes for only $1 A SAMPLE!


Don’t be Coy. Grab a Toy!

This post is sponsored by Adam & Eve

Ladies, if you’ve never used a sex toy, it’s unequivocally not too late to start.  This is not the 1970s or 80s, and you don’t even need a partner to give you pleasure. What’s more, you can choose a toy that will do just what you want, exactly where you want it. You’re in control, no questions asked.  Any women who uses toys, with or without a teammate, will attest to what I’m saying.

And how easy it is to order your toys right on the internet, in the privacy of your own home! So, even if you’re timid about making the move, only you know you’re making it. Adam & Eve, appropriately named after the lovers in the Garden of Eden, is the leading sex toy company in the United States. It has been selling adult toys–and other products including lingerie and lubes–for almost 50 years, and has built a reputation for honesty and reliability.

“Our loyal customers know they can rely on us to treat them fairly, protect their privacy, and stand by our promises,” reads a statement on The company also offers 24/7 customer service.  You can call or email them anytime. Plus, you’ll get a 90-day money back guarantee, so if you’re not satisfied (excuse the pun) with the products you ordered, for any reason, Adam & Eve will take it back.  Again, no questions asked.

                                               oxo Geri

Four of Our FOFavorite Toys

A Magic Wand

“Our first venture has proven to be quite enjoyable for both of us! It has opened the door to new experiences for an older couple. Highly recommended.” — 5-star review

Sensual Touch Massager proves the adage that “good things come in small packages.” It may be petite and lightweight, but this wand is ultra-powerful, capable of delivering 10 body-shaking vibration functions.  And, it’s rechargeable, so wires never get in the way of your ultimate fulfillment. The curvy, mushroom-shaped silicone head provides full coverage and feel silky smooth against your sensitive skin.

Surround Sound

“This is a very versatile toy both for me and my wife. It works well for both of us together or solo. Nice that is has different speed and pulse settings. Very fun toy. Great battery life, easy to charge. Easy to clean. Well made.”–5-star reviewer

Just like the reviewer said, Tryst Multi-Erogenous Massager is a magnificent multi-tasker, performing  as a penis ring, clitoral stimulator, couples vibrator, and more! Its unique arms and triple motor system can arouse any area with seven vibrating, pulsating and escalating functions. Play with it alone or with your partner, for endless exciting experiences.  Tryst is rechargeable and features a smooth silicone surface.

Pretty And Powerful

“If I could give it 10 stars, I would.  I was really hesitant to buy, but I’m really glad that I did. Small, discrete, and gets the job done. I love that it has different functions and that it’s waterproof. Also feel like it’s convenient that it’s rechargeable vs. battery operated!”–5-star reviewer

The Luxe Princess Vibrator is beautiful outside and works like a charm inside. Its diamond-textured silicone surface and seven vibration functions will bring you over-the-top sensations. Rechargeable and, at four inches, just the right size for working its way into tight spots. Quiet and waterproof, too. Comes in a lovely satin storage pouch. Give yourself a gift or get one for your best friend.  

Its Name Says It All

“My wife is very difficult to O, so I was leary about spending so much on one product. But I surprised her with this vibe, and when she relented to try it (she had thought that for her it was a waste of money), I could tell she enjoyed it quickly. Then, for someone who mostly doesn’t get any pleasure from other vibes, she was clutching the sheets within five minutes.” 5-star reviewer 

Strong and mischievously curvy to match your body’s natural curves, the Evolved Wild Orchid Vibrator has one motor in the tip of the smooth silicone shaft to target your G-Spot, and another in the flexible clitoral stimulator. Offering eight vibration functions, including pulsation and escalation, the motors can be used separately or together to create up to 24 unique combinations. Rechargeable and waterproof for wet and wild times.

Adam & Eve is offering the FOF community a generous 50% off 1 item + Free Shipping on your entire order in the US & Canada. (*some exclusions apply). Enter code FAB at checkout.


                   Adam & Eve today. 

Satisfaction guaranteed!


For the Love of Lube

In partnership with Pulse 

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The Pulse to Get Your Pulse Racing

My partner and I are canoodling in bed, and we’re both in the mood for more. I call a timeout as I fiddle around in my nightstand drawer for the tube of lubricant.  By the time I unscrew the goop-rimmed cap, squeeze out the cold gel, and slather it on, the mood is gone! I despise that lube, and every other lube I’ve ever bought, but I need it. I absolutely need it.  

Nothing can throw cold water on a romantic interlude like the lubricants on the market. Cold buzz kill!  Definitely not sexy.

Okay, now try to imagine the same bedroom scene, only this time I can slip my arm over to a sleek-looking, seductively lit device sitting on my nightstand, and with a wave of a hand (I don’t even have to look) out comes a deliciously warm lube right into my palm. I rub it on, my pulse speeds up, and I’m more in the mood for love!

Ladies, if the first scenario sounds familiar, and the second sounds alluring, meet the Pulse your pulse has been waiting for: The Pulse Personal Lubricant Warming Dispenser. Simply pop a little Pulse Pod filled with healthy and soothing personal lubricant into the chic and modern device (think Apple-like design meets Nespresso coffee capsules), and it delivers warm, comforting servings of luxurious lube in a touchless, mess-free and hygienic way–on demand, when I want them. Engineering at its most elegant. Just fabulous! (more…)

Increase Your Libido, Starting Today!

This message is sponsored by Fiera, but all opinions are those of FabOverFifty!

Fiera® has been all the rage with women who want to assure their sexual health after menopause.

A small, hands-free personal care device that increases libido and enhances arousal, Fiera is like no other tool to help you reconnect with your partner. It’s comfortable, easy to handle, and a game-changer for women who want to recharge their relationships naturally and effectively.


How To Make 2017 Your Sexiest Year Yet

Isn’t it about time you tried something new in the bedroom?

We’re continually excited about the intimate lifestyle products from LELO, because once you start using them, you’ll may never want to leave the bedroom! Check out the the three pleasure sets below, and see which ones are available at wonderful savings, up to 44% off.


So, why wait! Start the New Year with a New Approach to Sex. (more…)

Re-Discover Your Sex Drive, Naturally

Jumpstart your sex life this holiday season.


We’ve been in love with Fiera for quite some time, and we’re back today to give away three of these sensational personal care devices.

productsFiera ($199) is like no other tool to enhance intimacy. A small, hands-free product. Fiera enhances arousal and increases libido, helping get your mind and body in the mood for sex with your loved one. (more…)

Set Your Sights On Six Sexy Black Friday & Cyber Monday Specials!

It’s always the right time to try something new in the bedroom.

And, you can get started now by taking advantage of amazing Black Friday specials (up to 70% off bestselling items) from LELO, the world leader in luxury intimate lifestyle products. So surprise your partners (and close friends) with some extra-special gifts! Here are six of our favorites, but don’t forget to visit to view all the great buys.


Bridal Pleasure Set
($65.70, regularly $219)

Perfect for any bride, or an adventurous girlfriend, this set includes a waterproof NOA massager, Silk Pearl blindfold, and pearl-studded teaser whip. Just because the products are all white doesn’t mean to have to be angelic!


ORA 2 ($141.75, regularly $189)

Simulating his tongue during oral sex, this award-winning device will help you reach orgasm before, during, or after intercourse. Use it with your man, or alone. Featuring 10 stimulation patterns that surge when pressed against the skin, it’ll be the tool you’ll never want to put away.

“The newly enhanced pleasure nub rotates and vibrates, like a tongue, but better. And, the SenseTouch technology increases the intensity of the vibrations as more pressure is applied,” says LELO.

($132.30, regularly $189)

You and your man will love PINO because it will encourage his erection, and keep it harder than ever, while the upper portion rubs against you for clitoral stimulation. “It feels so great on the skin, and my lady loves when I massage her with it during foreplay. It has really upped our love-making experience,” says Brandon.

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How To Choose The Right Vibrator

As we age, our libidos and sex lives come under attack from physical and emotional forces, including weight gain, hormonal fluctuations, illnesses, changes after surgeries and medications. It just may be time to bring a new “pal” into the bedroom to help reignite your passions.

FabOverFifty has partnered with LELO, the world leader in intimate lifestyle products, to showcase five of its bestselling luxury toys that can bring you renewed excitement, whether you’re solo or have a partner. Happily, masturbation is no longer a “dirty word.” Anything but!




Shaped like “the caress of a lover’s fingers”, this vibrator includes two arms, one to massage your clitoris and another to stimulate the G-spot. This dual-action sensation creates a “blended climax,” according to LELO. “After cervical cancer with chemo, radiation and brachytherapy you strongly believe that your feelings of pleasure and orgasms are over. Not with the Ina Wave,” says reviewer Cecilia.



This egg-shaped device stimulates your clitoris during solo play, and can also be nestled between you and your partner during sex. Its eight stimulation patterns will help you “explore endless pleasure,” LELO says. LILY 2 comes in three colors, all with different scents: Lavender & Manuka Honey, Rose & Wisteria, and Bordeaux & Chocolat. It may be small and discreet, but boy, this device is powerful!

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A Sexual Health ‘Surprise’ From Soul Source

We want to do our part to make sex exciting again with a wonderful giveaway from our friends at Soul Source Therapeutic Devices.